Positive tests getting fainter and not progressing :( update 3rd chemical pregnancy:(

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  1. blessedmomma

    blessedmomma Well-Known Member

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  2. Suggerhoney

    Suggerhoney 40 And TTC'Praying for our last little miracle❤

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    They don't tend to do hcg bloods here its not standard.
     
  3. Suggerhoney

    Suggerhoney 40 And TTC'Praying for our last little miracle❤

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    I did do another sweetyfox test. And the line is still there but faint. No progression.
    Started having some breast tenderness, only slightly I really hope thats a good sign. Im now either 3 days late and 18dpo or im 13dpo.
    Really hoping this is just a very shy bean but not feeling hopful.
    My tests were very dark by 12dpo with my son.
     
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    saveme Well-Known Member

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    So sorry you're going through this, I know the feeling I had 3 losses in a row it truly sucks and it's hard. Still holding out hope though no bleeding is a good sign.
     
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    xxmyheartxx mommy of 5

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    Sending you big hugs lovely :hugs:
     
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    Thinking of you :hugs:
     
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    napamermaid Well-Known Member

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    Sorry i meant bloods to see if theres an imbalance of progesterone causing chemical pregnancies. Its so easily fixed and can save so much heartache month after month x
     
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    xxmyheartxx mommy of 5

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    I would definitely go and see the gp, I was referred to the rmc after having 3 children then having my losses, all my blood came back normal, so they put me on 75mg of aspirin, and I carried ds2 and ds2 while on it. Sending :hugs: to you again hun xx
     
  9. Classic Girl

    Classic Girl HPT House Mom!

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    Was also going to suggest checking progesterone!
    I loved clinical guard IC’s myself!
     
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    Suggerhoney 40 And TTC'Praying for our last little miracle❤

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    I spoke to a dr about low progesterone and she showed no interest. She just rest around implantation which i did.
    I swear this is down to my age and crappy eggs.

    Im on 75mg of baby asprin hon and it hasnt helped.

    I had a appointment with a doctor on the phone and I was trying to talk to her about progesterone but she wudnt take me seriously
    Just said if im still not pregnant after 6 months she wud refer me to hospital for tests.

    This will be our 6th month



    Thanks to everyone that replied.

    The last time I tested was 2 days ago and still had lines but not darker.
    I decided to give it a few days for HCG to rise and re test.

    But woke up this morning pouring with blood.

    All ive done all day is cry.

    My heart is in bits.
     
  11. napamermaid

    napamermaid Well-Known Member

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    Im so sorry.

    Dont look at this negatively.

    Its 6 mths so now she will refer you to hospital for tests. It's so important to get bloods done as they can spot hormonal inbalances and the remedy is so easy.
    Aspirin is more for after to get a bfp rather than helping before positive test.
    At your age its just a matter of waiting foe the right egg to drop. I saw a specialist in march after 2 mc. Thats what she said. Not all the eggs are bad and its just a matter of how long you can hang in there. I took umbiquinol to help eqq quality. I had 1 more mc and 3 weeks after that mc conceived again and am 18 weeks now.
    Dont give up hope. Its just a matter of time. Real challenge is how long your willing to do it for xx
     
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    :hugs:so sorry hun huge hugs!!
     
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    So sorry hun. I'm on a slew of supplements. If you're interested I'll tell you what all I'm taking. I don't know all the ins and outs of your health care system over there, but for me it was definitely the right direction to find a dr that gave a crap, listened to me, and actually knew her stuff about fertility. Lots of the supplements my dr agreed, but I bought myself from either health food stores or amazon.
     
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    xxmyheartxx mommy of 5

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    I'm so sorry lovely :hugs:

    When do you take the aspirin? I was advised to take it once I had bfp not before it xxx
     
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    xxmyheartxx mommy of 5

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    Perfectly summed up :hugs:
    It was heartbreaking when I kept losing, but if I hadn't of carried on, I wouldn't have my ds2 and ds3. Sending you lots of positive thoughts and love to you xxx
     
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    100% agree. I was told not to take the aspirin until bfp as because of blood thinning its actually doesnt bode well for a healthy thick lining which is necessary for sucessful implantation. Taking it prior to bfp hampers implantation resulting in chemical pregnancies.x
     
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    Suggerhoney 40 And TTC'Praying for our last little miracle❤

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    thanks for all the advice ladies.

    I think im going to stop the asprin for a while and if i get a BFP then will start taking them again.
    Wud u suggest I start them even if the line is supper faint or do I wait for lines to get darker?

    I will still contact the doctors on Monday.
    Not sure if they will do much other than refer me to gynecology at the hospital.
    Really was hoping it wasnt gonna come down to that but now it looks like I have no choice.

    I tried so desperately to explain to that dr about low progesterone and she really wudnt listen.

    Her answer regarding the chemicals was oh there just very common.
    But i hope I will be taken more seriously now that ive had 3 in the past 5 months.

    Im feeling very sad and empty right now.
    Im bleeding very heavy with huge clots.

    I dont think i will stand a chance this cycle because the chemical will prob make me O way to early like it did with the last 2.

    I've spoken to my husband and we have agreed to not try unless I get to CD11 without a positive OPK.
    If i do make it to CD 11 without Ovulating then maybe i will try again.
    If i O b4 cycle day 11 then I guess we will have to wait until September.
    :-(
     
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    xxmyheartxx mommy of 5

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    I was told by my consultant to start taking it as soon as I get bfp, ds2 I started at 10dpo and ds3 it was 8dpo x
     
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    Same i was advised to take it the day i got a bfp regardless of how early that was. This time i started at 11 dpo and continued until 12 weeks.
     
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    Suggerhoney 40 And TTC'Praying for our last little miracle❤

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    I will try it hon but i don't think it will work.
    But its worth a try.
    I just can not go through anymore losses this has hit me hard.

    I've never had 3 losses in a row. All my other 3 losses were years ago and always managed to fall pregnant after with healthy babies.
    I new at 40 it wud be more difficult to conceive but I never thought it wud be this hard.

    I really hope one day I get to have my rainbow baby but sadly all the hope I had is gone.

    I dont think ill even be able to try this cycle because this chemical will prob make me O way to early like the last 2.

    I dont normlly O untill day 13 14
    But these chemicals make me O on day 8 which is way to early.
    I wish there was a way i cud hold O off for a few extra days to give the egg longer to mature.
    But i don't know if its even possible :cry:
     

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