Praying for a 2012 BFP and 2013 Baby!!!

[Flowerbaby]

Hi gurls!

Gorgeous bump pic MrsMM, yes were friends im Claire Salvin, will go and have a look at your piccies on there and read up on your journal xx

DG good too hear your TTC plans are still on track! Keep saving those pennies chick!! xx

Well as for me and XDH no change really, hes coming over tmorrow so we can take Poppy swimming and go for lunch but the positive vibes i was getting from him last week seemed too have mellowed again and hes back too his 'dosent give a fuck' selfish self! Ughhhh.....just wish i could hate him then this would all be so much easier! Maybe its me who needs too make the decision once and for all and tell him too sling his hook!! Its just so hard and i dont know what is best anymore? Hes off too Abu Dhabi next week with his dad too see his DS, he wanted me too go but i told him no, i really couldnt bare the thought iykwim! I just feel so confused again girls, can do without seeing him tmor as when i see him i want him back again

 

[30mummyof1]

Oh Hun, must be so hard. I do feel for you. I can't believe what a twat he is being
Don't blame you for not wanting to go with him, he can't have it both ways.

 

[MrsPTTC]

Urgh Rach, the thought of it makes me want to vom! these are tablets but are so chalky & sweet, yuck! Orange Rennies are yum though!

I saw the mw today, good & bad news, my urethra pain & swollen ankles/thread veins are nothing to worry about, blood pressure fine (not sure how after a very stressful weekend) & still head down. BUT baby has only grown 1cm in 3 weeks! It was a different mw & she admitted thy could all measure it differently but she needs to act on what she's seen today so I'm booked in for a growth scan tomorrow. I've measured behind all the way along but now 3/4cm behind. Did anyone else have this problem? x

x

 

[MrsPTTC]

Aww nooo Claire! sorry xdh is being such a dick! It sounds like you're going to have to give him an ultimatum & if he won't sort himself out then walk away. Easy for me to say, I know, but you can't go on too long not knowing where you stand x

P.s those pics someone's tagged you in on fb, are they with xdh?

 

[30mummyof1]

Well with Thomas i always measured ahead, so was supposed to have a growth scan but doc that checked me beforehand then measured me bang on so didn't have the scan and Thomas was an v average 7lb 11. Harry on otherhand always measured about 2cm less and was 8lb so i think the measuring is pretty inconclusive.
Least it'll be another chance to see baby, but in sure babba will be absolutely fine Hun

 

[MrsPTTC]

Thanks Hun, funny he measured behind then was at the larger end of normal. I'll update you tomorrow but yes it's nice to see it agin x

 

[MrsMM24]

MRSP I measured right on with DD and then she came out smaller than expected.... With this DD, she is measuring ahead a little which they will check again on February 26th, because I haven't gained weight, but she has grown they want to check some things out. My tummy is definitely grown!!! (pics in my journal). I am sure your little one is juuuust fine in there Hun!

HOPES sorry to here about the back and forth ups and downs with DH, Listen CLAIRE, you are a beautiful woman!! Your FB pics are just gorgeous! I know it is hard for you, but you just continue being a great mom and person and some awesome man will be there to love on you and Poppy as you deserve!!!


RACH that is interesting about Harry, I find the differences in the tummy to be sooo interesting vs that of after they are born...

 

[30mummyof1]

Other funny thing is I put on 2stone with Thomas and 12lbs with Harry! same starting weight

 

[MrsPTTC]

I know you'll have already seen on fb but all is well, weighing estimated 5lb9 at the minute & expected to be around 7 or 8lb mark at birth. Hope its no bigger Not sure if she dropped a clanger, she mentioned 'she' but this was before she'd gone down that end, & when she did go down she said we could look as we couldn't see anything anyway, so maybe it was a slip of the tongue, most people call it he or she rather than it, maybe she just thought its face looked like an she ha ha. It was frowning lol.

Hope everything ok with your LO too Mrsmm I put on loads of weight but now over the last 3 weeks haven't put on anything which is weird! I was the same when she said yest it was only 1cm bigger, my tummy has defo grown!

Wow Rach that's quite a difference!

x

 

[30mummyof1]

ooo woopsie, not long now till we all find out!

 

[MrsPTTC]

I've had my first wobble today - a girl came into work with her baby and I had cuddle and I just didn't feel maternal!! My friends all said when they first found out they were pregnant they thought for a split second whether they'd done the right thing, I never had that until today and it's far too late for such silly thoughts!!! Maybe it's the whole newborn thing as lets face it they don't do a lot until they're a few months old. I'm sure I'll be fine with our LO, after all we've waited long enough! x

 

[30mummyof1]

Yes everyone feels the same at some point hun, don't worry it's normal. It's the biggest thing you'll ever do and the biggest change in your life so it's no wonder we have doubts from time to time. But you WILL love your baby and you will be very happy that you did it.

 

[MrsPTTC]

Thanks Hun guess I was just surprised its happening now rather than at the beginning I saw a newborn baby on the news before & it DID give me butterflies...think I'm just having a funny day lol! x

 

[30mummyof1]

How's everyone's weekend going? oh my god since I've lost weight I am such a lightweight! I think I had about 3 glasses of wine last night and a Bacardi and coke and when I got home at midnight yes midnight I was throwing up! how embarrassing
Would say I'm not drinking again but I am out on Friday! oh dear.

 

[deafgal01]

My weekend is ok so far. Felt a lil annoyed at a girlfriend last night (not married and already talking about a honeymoon baby to me). I probably should have told her straight up to NOT even bother but eh... Today having a lazy day in and will be seeing ladies later tonight for a pitch in thing.

 

[30mummyof1]

ahh dg must be hard when friends do that

 

[deafgal01]

Think it's even harder when it is supposed to be your best friend that does this. Thankfully I don't have to see her today- originally she wanted to meet up again today for lunch but has since decided staying home sounded better today.

 

[30mummyof1]

Yes she definitely should be more sensitive to your feelings then x

 

[deafgal01]

I don't know why she's not that much more sensitive. Figures. So how are your weekends going? Mine is just productive... I did nothing all morning but pee and drink coffee. Then this afternoon I managed to tackle the dishwasher (unload clean dishes and load up the dirty ones after a rinse). I even washed the pot and some cups... DH will be shocked.

 

[30mummyof1]

My hangover seems to have now passed, phew! Just had an indian takeaway, I didn't have curry though just chicken tikka so I stay on track! Plan is to now watch hangover 2