Praying for a 2012 BFP and 2013 Baby!!!

[MrsPTTC]

I see DG, well congrats!

GL AS!

Yeah rach, MIL is great, as is my mam, just a shame she doesn't live closer (30min car journey depending on traffic vs 5mins to MIL's) GL with testing!

X

 

[30mummyof1]

bfn today, but not surprising hey at 7dpo!

 

[MrsPTTC]

Yup too early! x

 

[30mummyof1]

Well I asked oh what he thought about maybe waiting for baby no'3 but he doesn't want to do that! He said baby is more important than getting married first!! was quite shocked how broody he is. He said he'd rather postpone a honeymoon so...we're still ttc! We've said next Sept as an approximate date for a wedding but I think maybe Apr/May 15' might be better.
Bought my first wedding mag today, god they are expensive! £4.99 just need to find time to look through it now!

 

[Flowerbaby]

Awwww Rach your ring is gorgeous, how romantic and thoughtful that your OH designed it himself and it was his grandmas diamonds, awww that's just soo lovely!!! So hes pretty adamant that he wants another LO then if hes willing too postpone the wedding, that's great news!!! Sorry about your BFN, but still early days....any new symptoms too report on today?

AS yaaayy for Ovulation, now the TWW begins, testing time will be here soooo soon, if you are testing from 7dpo that's only 5 more sleeps too go!!! Funny as that's when I will need too test aswell, ha ha, I will freaking die if its a BFP, holy shit! Never wanted a BFN so much in my effing life! lol!

Well 2 more sleeps too my 2nd date with my new man.....hes quite up for seeing me aswell which im quite surprised at! Not sure what our plans are as we are both on the drinky poo tomorrow night so I cant see us going too far, maybe out for tea then back too his for some TLC hee hee! I must update my undies, need lotsa new sexy ones I think

DG congrats chick

MrsP glad all is well with Penny and you are getting lotsa help, Im with you with the coil thing, I didn't want anymore hormones pumping into me so am going with the copper one as oppose too the mirena, apparently it can make you periods slightly longer but at least it dosent mess with your body hormonally

 

[30mummyof1]

Thanks hun
well few cramps on and off today not as strong as up to a couple of days ago. still loads of cm and more tired than usual. Boobs are fuller and achey but can get that prior to af so can't use that one.

Have fun Monday night, get yourself down to the shop for sexy undies!!

 

[asibling4gi04]

AWE RACH HOW SWEET OF OH TO WANT TO DO WHATEVER IT TAKES FOR ANOTHER LO! YOU ARE BLESSED! STILL TOO EARLY..BFP LETS GO LETS GO!!

CLAIRE AS PRETTY AS YOU ARE, YOUR UNDERWEAR WILL NOT MATTER ESPECIALLY SINCE THEY WILL END UP ON THE FLOOR! YOU MAKE ME SMILE..CANNOT WAIT FOR DATE UPDATE! I AM 3DPO..FRIDAY HAD BADDDDD AWFUL CRAMPS THAT SHOT RIGHT DOWN TO MY HOO HA! NOTHING SINCE BUT ODDLY, A WEEEE BT OF NAUSEA BUT I THINK THAT IS IN MY BIG HEAD! LOL..XXXX KEEP US POSTED!

THANKS FOR THE WISHES MRSPTTC, AND I AM SO GLAD THAT YOU AND PENNY ARE DOING MARVELOUSLY ..SHE IS A GEM FOR SURE!

DG MISS YOU GIRL..YOU NEED TO UPDATE ME SO I DO NOT HAVE TO SCROLL BACK..IM TOO LAZY!

 

[asibling4gi04]

congrats DG! SO PROUD OF YOU!

 

[MrsPTTC]

Thanks AS, me n Penny are routing for you! How's things with OH now?

Rach have you tested again yet? I had a feeling your OH would not want to postpone TTC!

x

 

[asibling4gi04]

MRSPTTC OH and I are better than in the past so far! Thanks for asking. I feel nauseated today and my bbs hurt (the right one hurts) shooting pains and leg cramps but I still will not give in to a FALSE sense of hope..time will tell!

 

[deafgal01]

not much to report really. Waiting game for my turn at iui. I still need to go get my blood screening done, and inform my dr of my donor choices (choice a will be a known donor we know- one of my friends) and choice b will be a list of three to five possible donors from the sperm bank. But yikes, 1 1/2 months to go, 40ish days. I think we are looking at late June/early July for my iui depending on when af shows in June. So far she has been on track showing up every 30 days like clockwork but Af can still delay or start early by few days now.

 

[30mummyof1]

I've been going back and forth, one minute thinking we should wait till after the wedding then the next thinking I just don't want to wait that long to ttc! If only I would get my bfp this month then the decision would have been taken out of my hands! but bfn today so don't think it will be.
Spoke to one friend earlier who said she'd wait if it was her, but maybe drop some hints with the inlaws to see whether they might offer to help financially and therefore we could get married earlier. Might work, not sure!

Yay for good signs as!

 

[MrsPTTC]

It's still early Rach! Good look with your hinting!

Great to hear AS!

Wow DG a donor you know? How good of him to offer whoever he is! Does a known donor have any parental rights at all? I've no idea on this. How does dh feel on this option?

x

 

[deafgal01]

I thought about it long and hard, tried to talk myself out that idea but it persisted so I eventually asked my dh. He was ok with it, and then recently I asked my friend. He thought about it for a week before answering yes. I am a control freak, I like being able to control certain things and I did not like the fear of thinking ok, this donor through the bank could maybe have 10 other children out there that might accidentally meet my baby someday and what if they fall in love with each other? That idea scared me so this way I have some control kind of because I know the person and there is no way he would not know how many kids are out there from him so less risk and chance of my babies going to college only to meet their half siblings. You know what I mean? No he would not have any parental rights at all, but I am seriously considering him for the guardian role in case anything happens to Zach and me. Been thinking of making him guardian of my kids anyways long before this whole infertility business happened.

I need to see to it that I make sure my dh feels manly. He feels inadequate simply cuz he cannot give us this. I told him having sperms does not make one a man. Right?

 

[30mummyof1]

That makes complete sense dg x
And no, having sperms certainly does not make a man in fact he is showing he is a man by being so supportive to you in such a difficult time

 

[Flowerbaby]

DG your DH is more of a man than he could ever be by agreeing too sperm donor and supporting your wishes too have a child, hes an amazing man! Sounds like a great idea with regards too a friend being the donor especially if you were thinking of havong him as guardian anyway, that would be just great! Not long too go now hun, 40ish days will fly by, soooo excited for you xxx

AS great symptoms, al sounds very promising! You're right about the undies, i literally had them on for 15 mins when i got too his, before they were on his kitchen floor! Ha ha!! Eeeeeshh we just cant get enough of one another! Had a lovely afternoon with him, i really quite like him but for now its just a bit of fun for both of us, im still legally married so not sure if its classed as an affair even tho we've not lived or been together for 8 months, think i need too look into that, im certain my ex is seeing someone tho but who knows! Glad all is well with you and OH chick xx

Rach, anymore testing hun? Hope you do get your BFP this month then, defo drop hints too inlaws, i did and they helped pay for church and cars which was a great help, my parents paid for reception and we sorted the rest xx

MrsP how are you today? x

As for me im walking like John Wayne but with a huge smile on my face! IYKWIM! Ha ha! Had mucho fun, cant wait too see him again

 

[MrsPTTC]

Haha Claire, glad you had fun chick! I'm ok thanks, Penny gone back to not sleeping more than 2/3 hours flat (she did 3/4 some of last week) so I'm a bit tired, but cos we've had people over this weekend her routines gone out the window. Think I'll try keeping her up more during the day.

DG I'm with Rach, that makes complete sense & I agree with Claire, what dh is doing makes him more of a man, it's amazing, & I'm sure he'll make an amazing father

x

 

[30mummyof1]

on your undies on the kitchen floor! have fun lady, you deserve it after all the ups and downs with xdh x
Yes, i'll see her tomorrow and just tell her what I've been thinking and go from there I think.
bfn today. If you ladies what to keep an eye on me, you can click on my cycle siggy too

 

[asibling4gi04]

dg i hope it all works out and I understand about the donor thing..I went through it and now will never know!!

Rach n mrspttc, thanks for the wishes..Rach I do not think TTC should be put on hold considering the process and the waiting etc.. just my opinion!

OH MY CLAIRE YOU NAUGHTY NAUGHTY GIRL! I AM DYING LAUGHING OVER HERE..GOOD FOR YOU! I AM GLAD YOU ARE HAVING FUN..MAYBE IT WILL LEAD TO MORE!!?!? YA NEVER KNOW CHICKA! TOLD YOU ABOUT THOSE UNDIES!

AFM NOTHING TO REPORT..SOME RANDOM BOOB PAINS AND ACHES, VERY HUNGRY BUT NOTHING ELSE..THE SYMPTOMS I DO NOT HAVE WHICH I USUALLY DO WHEN PG ARE: NO HEIGHTENED SENSE OF SMELL, NO VIVID DREAMS, NOT TOO EMOTIONAL, NOT TOO MANY TWINGES..JUST HERE AND THERE..SO, I AM FEELING OUT..I AM OLD AFTER ALL..WE WILL SEE!

 

[30mummyof1]

Thanks hun, yes I want as many opinions as poss!
I know it's up to me at the end of the day, and partly df but he's happy to ttc now and wed in sept 14' or just wait till after.
That's the thing, you don't know how long it will take! and if we waited and then it didn't happen for whatever reason i'm sure we'd be more devastated than just having 3 kids at our wedding and maybe the planning being a bit more stressful.
As I've said before my next fertile time in when we are on hols and that just seems like a fab time to be ttc, in a castle!

Still early days as, and you're not too old. Halley Berry just became pregnant at 46!