Thanks for the advice on my friend, Jue - we are going to go and see her when she comes home tomorrow anyway, I've got them a card.
I'm a soft touch also - it's only cos she never ever asked how my wedding plans were going, even though they came to the wedding, they didn't get us a card!
And she never once said I looked nice or the wedding was nice or nothing. She never asks how me & baby are getting on. So she isn't really much of a friend, her husband works with mine thats all.
Maybe i'm just being over sensitive, but I too feel like saying stuff it.