Pregnant again after mc in May..scared

[mamaduke]

Hi everyone
Im so happy to be back here again after a mc back in May, words cant describe how blessed i feel. I just wanted to share my feelings with you and see if anyone can offer some comfort. I feel really worried this time, im trying to stay positive and just enjoy my new little bean but every now and then during the day i start thinking about my mc. Its awful but its almost like im waiting for it to happen all over again Im so scared.
I hope and pray to god that this bean is a sticky one and with me for the duration but i cant help but feel this way.
I just keep telling myself its a new pregnancy, new egg, new sperm, completely new being.
Anyone else pregnant after a mc?
Would love to chat

Your feelings are totally normal. I had a m/c in February and when I got my this time around, I cried - both happy and terrified. I m/c around 7w, so when I saw a hb this time around at 8w, I was still in disbelief. This morning, DH and I went to see my OB and we heard the hb again! To hear the hb twice... my nervousness about another m/c is definitely lower. But I was absolutely terrified... especially when it came to the 8w u/s (since we detected my m/c via u/s, as I hadn't m/c on my own at that point).

Congrats on the new pregnancy! Hopefully this will be your Rainbow Baby!

 

[emma1985]

Can any of you help me? Did any of you feel nervous getting through the first few days. Today is 28 days since my m/c started last month and im scared.
I am hoping that as my showed up earlier this month and was still there on digital last night that I will be okay. I think I will relax a litttle more after weekend.

Im having bloods again today and on Monday I should know if they are going up in the right amounts.

Im trying to keep positive, but petrified.

 

[TrAyBaby]

Emma i think you and me are in the same boat. infact i think we were even on the same testing threads. I got my BFP last cycle but ended in an early m/c. I tried straight away as soon as i stopped bleeding and a few days ago i got my BFP. Im not technically due till monday so its still early and im scared the same thing will happen again this month. I had bloods done on wed at 11 dpo and hcg was at 22. Im having 2nd bloods done in less than an hour but as its the weekend i wont get results till monday i hope they have doubled. I got my BFP a few days earlier this month too, just like you. I keep taking tests everyday to watch the line get darker.

I pray that your numbers double and that your little bean holds on tight this time x

 

[emma1985]

Emma i think you and me are in the same boat. infact i think we were even on the same testing threads. I got my BFP last cycle but ended in an early m/c. I tried straight away as soon as i stopped bleeding and a few days ago i got my BFP. Im not technically due till monday so its still early and im scared the same thing will happen again this month. I had bloods done on wed at 11 dpo and hcg was at 22. Im having 2nd bloods done in less than an hour but as its the weekend i wont get results till monday i hope they have doubled. I got my BFP a few days earlier this month too, just like you. I keep taking tests everyday to watch the line get darker.

I pray that your numbers double and that your little bean holds on tight this time x

I havent had my 1st result yet so not sure what my level was, I have another appointment at 4:50 today and like you I wont get my result till Monday/Tuesday. I'm soooo nervous.

 

[lindac065]

hi, i too had a misscarage 2 years ago, even though i am excited i am also very worried. im trying not to think what happend in the past and also that as 1liz9 said the odds are in our favour. best of luck xx

 

[TrAyBaby]

hey Emma i'm just back from my blood test and they said i can't get the results till Tuesday cause they are closed for holiday monday aaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrggh This will be a very long weekend for both of us!

 

[emma1985]

hey Emma i'm just back from my blood test and they said i can't get the results till Tuesday cause they are closed for holiday monday aaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrggh This will be a very long weekend for both of us!

bummer!

 

[emma1985]

Emma i think you and me are in the same boat. infact i think we were even on the same testing threads. I got my BFP last cycle but ended in an early m/c. I tried straight away as soon as i stopped bleeding and a few days ago i got my BFP. Im not technically due till monday so its still early and im scared the same thing will happen again this month. I had bloods done on wed at 11 dpo and hcg was at 22. Im having 2nd bloods done in less than an hour but as its the weekend i wont get results till monday i hope they have doubled. I got my BFP a few days earlier this month too, just like you. I keep taking tests everyday to watch the line get darker.

I pray that your numbers double and that your little bean holds on tight this time x

I havent had my 1st result yet so not sure what my level was, I have another appointment at 4:50 today and like you I wont get my result till Monday/Tuesday. I'm soooo nervous.

Initial Blood 60, is that good? (from Wednesday - approx 12/13DPO)

 

[TrAyBaby]

Hey Emma have a look at this link, your numbers sound spot on

https://www.betabase.info/showBasicChart.php?type=Single

 

[jenp86]

I hear you, I had a mc in July and even though I'm excited about being pregnant again, I'm scared to get too excited because mc is constantly on the back of my mind. The only thing we can do is take it day by day I think

Congratulations and good luck! I'm sure everything will be great this time around!