proving he's the dad?

[purpledahlia]

how do you do the 192 thing?? im gonna try it out!

 

[DizzyMoo]

Thanks hun, He wasn't working last i knew but that was march ish. I know he is due to come into some money this year would they touch this?

I don't think they would take that into consideration, I think it's only based on earnings, I'm not 100% sure though seeing as though he may not work.

Tut typical , he'd be paying £5 a week through benefits then but yet having around £25k in the bank GRRRRRRRR

 

[babybaillie]

I went through this years ago. It was embarassing and humiliating. I was called in to a meeting with a male from the csa. He asked how long i seen my ex for, dates. Asked what sort of relationship we had. How often we had sex etc, did i have sex with anyone else. Dont no how they did this with my ex, but for 5 years he disputed he was the dad. In the end a dna test was done through the csa. Not entirely sure who paid for this, but i think it was dad, and it came back he was dad!!! Not a nice thing to go through.

 

[babybaillie]

he wouldnt get benefits with 25grand in the bank. there is only a certain amount of money u can have in the bank while on benefits and its no where near that amount

 

[woadie]

I went through this years ago. It was embarassing and humiliating. I was called in to a meeting with a male from the csa. He asked how long i seen my ex for, dates. Asked what sort of relationship we had. How often we had sex etc, did i have sex with anyone else. Dont no how they did this with my ex, but for 5 years he disputed he was the dad. In the end a dna test was done through the csa. Not entirely sure who paid for this, but i think it was dad, and it came back he was dad!!! Not a nice thing to go through.

Christ, that's inhumane....I will remember that if I get called in to a meeting I will take a witness and a tape recorder.... I'm sure that's in some way a sexual harassment.... the police cannot even do an over clothes body frisk if they aren't female, so to have a man employed as some sort of CSA clerk asking very personal questions I am sure would be breaking laws left right and centre...

these b*st*rds who work for various government public sectors think theyre gods, I swear....