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I have been TTC for 3 years, I just recently had surgery to correct what is thought to have been my issue all along. I was excited to see if I pregnant just 2 weeks after my operation. I did get a positive test but it was only a chemical.
My brother-law's girlfriend tried to get pregnant a year ago and became pregnant right away. They were up and down so she got an abortion. I was pretty angry with her but forgave her when a year later they tried to get pregnant again. They were not dating at this time but began dating right after they dont out. They did purposely get pregnant which I was happy for them but upset at the same time because I had been trying for so long in a committed relationship and couldn't conceive. She is now 8 months pregnant and we are close now. I thought of throwing her a baby shower but didn't know if I could do it because I was being selfish and was afraid of being sad that I may never have a shower of my own.
After lots of thinking I decided to throw her one, I have bought lots of cute decor and prizes and I'm throwing it this Saturday. My period just so happen is to come a few days after so my hormones are already going crazy. I'm super happy to be doing this for her, its taken a lot of courage and leaving my selfishness out the door. I'm happy to an Aunty, I still wish I was pregnant but I have got to experience finding out the sex of there baby with her and feeling him kick.
Any of you experienced this?
My brother-law's girlfriend tried to get pregnant a year ago and became pregnant right away. They were up and down so she got an abortion. I was pretty angry with her but forgave her when a year later they tried to get pregnant again. They were not dating at this time but began dating right after they dont out. They did purposely get pregnant which I was happy for them but upset at the same time because I had been trying for so long in a committed relationship and couldn't conceive. She is now 8 months pregnant and we are close now. I thought of throwing her a baby shower but didn't know if I could do it because I was being selfish and was afraid of being sad that I may never have a shower of my own.
After lots of thinking I decided to throw her one, I have bought lots of cute decor and prizes and I'm throwing it this Saturday. My period just so happen is to come a few days after so my hormones are already going crazy. I'm super happy to be doing this for her, its taken a lot of courage and leaving my selfishness out the door. I'm happy to an Aunty, I still wish I was pregnant but I have got to experience finding out the sex of there baby with her and feeling him kick.
Any of you experienced this?