Mother of 4
Mom to 5 & pregnant
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Really upset. So my MIL was supposed to take care of our 4 kids when I went into labor. We live 45 min. from the hospital and it's usually a 2 night stay for a normal vaginal delivery. I just had my husband call her and talk to her because when I go in this next Friday I will be planning my induction for the following week when I hit 40 weeks. They are planning a garage sale that same weekend that I turn 40 weeks...of course it's still 2 weeks away and they don't have an ad out or anything for it yet. So she informed us that she won't watch the kids that weekend if we schedule the induction as they had already planned doing their sale that weekend. Are you kidding me??!!! It's a baby we are bringing in the world over a damn garage sale you could put off a weekend or 2!
Ontop of that she asked if my husband was going to be coming home every night to take the kids back to our house and take care of them. How stupid would that be. She knows with every kid that he stays with me most of the time as it's our bonding time with baby. We've done this with all the kids. My mom has lived in the same state when I had every baby so she always came to our home and took care of the kids for us no questions asked. His mother won't even come to our home which would be easier on the kids but whatever I wasn't complaining as long as she was watching them. We can't afford the gas to drive back and forth....I'm so upset that this is being sprung on us now
Ontop of that she asked if my husband was going to be coming home every night to take the kids back to our house and take care of them. How stupid would that be. She knows with every kid that he stays with me most of the time as it's our bonding time with baby. We've done this with all the kids. My mom has lived in the same state when I had every baby so she always came to our home and took care of the kids for us no questions asked. His mother won't even come to our home which would be easier on the kids but whatever I wasn't complaining as long as she was watching them. We can't afford the gas to drive back and forth....I'm so upset that this is being sprung on us now