Rant

[CandJ]

So our wedding is 5 days away. Just 5 days!

I'm very stressed at the moment it seems like there is so much to do and no time to do it in.

My dress is in the shop having the finishing bits done and I wont get it back until friday afternoon less than 24 HOURS beofre the wedding!!!

I haven't got a clue what I'm getting my bridesmaids as pressents!

The food and cake isn't being delievered until the morning of the wedding which means I wont have time to sort it if anything goes wrong.

And to add to all my stress my mother has found out that I'm getting married. Her and I haven't spoken for about 6 months and she isn't invited but she's not the sort of person that would stay away (neither are her family). I've now got to sort out some sort of plan to keep her away from the wedding and recpetion which is causing more stress. ARGH!

 

[pinkmummy]

Can you not ask the venue to refuse her entry?

xx

 

[Sovereign]

Apart from the dress I am having the exact issues as you and we get married on sat too!!!

First BIL has been disinvited but I think he might turn up. We are writing a list of everyone who is invited so that the venue can tick them off as they arrive. No name on th elist, no entry. Simple.

Try not to stress about the cake and the food. It will more than likely be absolutely perfect and you will have been worrying for nothing.

As for your bridesmaids, how about jewellery or vouchers for a massage or facial or something?

Hope it all goes well babe x

 

[CandJ]

As our reception is in a police station she wont be able to get in (everyone has to have given us car details and names etc) so thats fine. I'm more worried about her turning up in the ceremony.

With the bridesmaid jewelery isn't really an option and one of them is a jeweler so kinda makes it hard to buy anything for her. I was thinking of putting together a make up bag with smellys and stuff in there, but I'm not really sure! Argh!

 

[pinkmummy]

That sound good! (The smellies) I would love to get that as a gift!!

 

[buttonnose82]

oh hun, i hope things fall into place for you love the smellies idea as gifts

 

[Sambatiki]

Hi hun,

Im sure its going to go wonderfully.. but I'd be stressed too....

What about a nice picture frame for the bridesmaids.... goodie bag also sounds great! They'll appreciate whatever you give them

 

[CandJ]

Thanks ladies. Think I'll go with a little goodie bag of smellies and creams and that kinda stuff. Possibly get a photo of us at the wedding and then after frame it and give it to them as a thank you kind of thing

EEEEEKKKKK Just 2 days left!

 

[Sovereign]

Thanks ladies. Think I'll go with a little goodie bag of smellies and creams and that kinda stuff. Possibly get a photo of us at the wedding and then after frame it and give it to them as a thank you kind of thing

EEEEEKKKKK Just 2 days left!

Yeah that sounds good babe. We are having the same problem with BIL. He can be kicked out of the reception cos it's a private party but legally theres nothing that can be done to stop someone turnign up at a ceremony. Fingers crossed eh? x

 

[llamedos]

I haven't got a clue what I'm getting my bridesmaids as pressents!

I bought the gifts for my bridesmaids on the morning of my wedding.. nothing like organisation


Hope you get it all sorted, sounds like a nightmare, but at the end of the day, it is you and hubby to be that are the important ones, and noone should be able to spoil that for you.