mummy to be
Cautiously Pregnant
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Sorry but i am about to have a good old b*tch hey!!!
My apparent "best mate" has gone behind my back and had a massive winge and b*tch about me and being pregnant to another one of my good friends.
She was telling my good mate Ang that i am a self centered attention seeker and since i have fallen pregnant that is all i talk about and that she does wanna come over or see me anymore cause i am always getting things for the baby and talking about our plans all the time....
She is mad cause i wont go jet skiing or motor bike riding anymore (for obvious reasons i thought). Although i am still happy to go and watch and stuff but yeah.. i am now the worst person in the world cause i am pregnant it seems. Like i am wrecking her fun and personal life.
Than Ang tells me that my apparent "best mate" then turns around and brings in my OH to the b*tch fest and says that she knows the he really doesnt wanna be in the situation with me cause he is only 21 and that he is not really ready for marriage and a baby. Ang asked how she knows that and she said that well he is only the same age as me and i dont want it so why would he.....
That p*ssed me off the most.. far enough attack me if you want to but DO NOT GUESS WHAT MY HUSBAND TO BE WANTS AND DOESNT WANT!!!!
She continues to b*tch about me and this baby to my mate Ang for over a hour!!!!! I have tried to text her and call her to confront her about this (cause Ang came straight to my place to tell me everything - Ang defended me on every level to her but yeah) but she wouldnt answer or text back...
What the hell is her issue?
Her OH is more interested in his cars, bikes and toys than her and getting married and wanting kids for him is not even in the picture.. he says he never wants any of that sh*t and this has been a issue for a while and i was ALWAYS there for her to pick up the pieces, a shoulder for her to cry on, a place for her to stay when they fought. And this is how she re-pays me...
Apparently i should not be so excited about our first baby!!!!!! Her words.. it is only a kid....
I am sooooooooooooooooooo furious at her.. i seriously wanna smack her out!!!!!! Who the hell does she think she is??????
Why is she doing this? am i not suppost to be excited about our 1st baby?
I asked Ang if i talk to much about the baby and she told me if i didnt talk about it she would be worried. She has 2 kids and knows how excited i am.... At least she is happy for me.......
I am FURIOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I guess i wanna know if this is normal with friends when all of us are pregnant and if anyone else has this issue.....
Please help
****Sorry End Rant******