Really hating sex.... and anything too do with it!

Discussion in 'Pregnancy - Second Trimester' started by Maidenet, Nov 19, 2011.

  1. Maidenet

    Maidenet Well-Known Member

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    Seriously..... Not had sex since we found out due to my history of mc...
    But we have done other things. Problem is....... ( I'm so embaressed ) when i orgasm at the minute, it either makes me burst into uncontrollable crying! OR I feel horrible.... Like paranoid, nervous and just generally not good.

    I love my partner, and tbh.... I feel sexy at the minute as I know my belly is getting bigger because of baby, so im not so shy.

    I feel so bad for him :( xxx
     
  2. victorial8

    victorial8 Mummy to Freya

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    I could have written this post apart from the feelin sexy thing and we have actually done it twice since finding out.
    I feel so sorry for my oh too but now, one of my reasons is that coz she's kicking, I would find it weird if she kicked whilst we were doing it!! X x
     
  3. Maidenet

    Maidenet Well-Known Member

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    It's maybe not sexy lol, but I'm not so bothered about trying to breath in or hide myself ha ha xx
     
  4. Kaede351

    Kaede351 Guest

    I feel far from sexy lol :/ I feel like a whale! But DH tries to make me feel better. I'm just not into sex at the moment, we've managed maybe once or twice a month since I got my bfp... Used to be 3 or 4 times a week if not more :/

    I enjoy it when we actually do it, I just never seem to be "in the mood" lately. He has to really really try hard to initiate it all haha. I feel so bad for him :( can't be fun for him, bless him! And he's been so good to me too.

    I know exactly how you feel though hun, just not into it :(

    XxX
     
  5. SabrinaKat

    SabrinaKat Delighted Mum to Finn

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    My husband and I haven't had any 'fun' since a cervical bleed at 14wks (so not even orgasm, sigh)...but I figure a few more months won't hurt us...come on mid-February, I do miss my husband!

    (oh, must explain -- history of mc (yes), but am 0 neg, which means I need anti-d injection in my bum (very uncomfortable ) every and any time there is any bleeding, so um, definitely not worth it (and it hurts for a few days afterwards as well)...sigh....ah, well, he has his drink, bless

    best wishes
     
  6. Wantingbbbump

    Wantingbbbump Airyonna is here 4/2/2012

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    My OH and I have only had sex 3 times in almost 21 weeks. I just don't want sex and when I do have some "fun" it hurts really bad so there is no fun in it for me. I do feel bad for him but he doesn't have long to wait until she is here and then maybe I will want to be with him again. I also have a history of preterm labor and the fear of going into labor early has a ton to do with it too.
     
  7. YoshiPikachu

    YoshiPikachu Mama to Hannah and Joseph

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    Aww sorry for yOu ladies that have that, I have not had that at all.
     

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