This is one of those things where someone who experienced a problem will obviously advise everyone to not do what they did.
A very big HOWEVER to me here though is that she had a failed induction?! You can't just interfere like that and then go hands off without some serious medical oversight on a continuous basis. There is not a single medical facility I know who will start an induction and then just point blank stop it because it doesn't progress. At that point they come out by c section and I'm very much wondering what they did to try and induce, there is every possibility that the intervention led to further issues - infection etc.
With any statistics, someone has to be the 1 in 1,000 that does go wrong, but that's still 999 that don't. I'm pretty happy with those odds so I'll be declining induction until close to 43 weeks.
Induction rate in the UK is 25% at the moment and 70% of those are for 'post date', wow, that's a crazy number of babies outstaying their welcome.... When there are that many not proceeding naturally, I can't help but wonder if that's just another variation of normal?
If you are referring to the nurse i spoke with, she ended up with a c- section after he baby became distressed... The problem i have with the stats are they are showing still births, not when things go wrong. The nurse i spoke to deals on a daily basis with babies that she feels have been left too long who swallow meconium, become lodged and suffer lack of oxygen, suffer fractured skulls, broken arms ( from forceps) and have become distressed during birth. Loss of life before birth is not something she has to deal with working in neonatal.... In the past two years i have personal friends who have suffered losing their children, one after birth, he was born at 42 weeks and they didnt realise he was transverse, and another at 41 weeks who was stillborn, they said it was just "one of those things"
The reason they induce after a baby "overstays" is because its dangerous for mum and baby, the reason they don't induce when everyone turns 40 weeks is because most women will go into labour naturally ( and much cheaper may i add) before 41 weeks, that really doesn't change what the lady spoke to me about and her very serious concerns for the "laxidasicle" attitude she thought hospitals had....
I completely take your point on the fact that the statistics only look at still birth rates rather than other problems. In my experience, and from looking through other birth boards most hospitals are actually coercing ladies in to induction well before 42 weeks, so far, the people I know who are refusing induction have had to really fight their case. I am not sure where you live country/area wise?
Anyone who goes over their individual areas induction guidelines should be offered a least bi-weekly CTGs and also a weekly scan to confirm amniotic pool depth. Whilst things can go wrong at any time, these should help to assess a number of possible issues. I am very sorry for your friends who have experienced losses, it doesn't really matter at what gestation they happen, it's obviously devastating.
Babies in bad positions can happen at any time, my brother became transverse during labour at just over 40 weeks and had to be an EMCS. I on the other hand was breech at 37 weeks and no one realised and I was a natural delivery. I'm just saying that these things happen inside pregnancies that clearly do fit the 'norm' as it were. I don't think we could ever insinuate that those problems stem just from post date labours.
There is also a lot of evidence that many of the procedures and practices in operation today are not truly helpful. Babies can often become distressed during induction, I am sure there is evidence especially surrounding epidurals and the lead on to instrumental deliveries but I don't have anything to hand to link to. I just think our bodies are amazing, most of the time they know what they need to do and we are losing in touch with that as time goes on and birth becomes more medicalised and dare I say, regulated.