I'd just tell people that are commenting that you don't appreciate their comments and if they can keep it to themselves. Be a bit rude if need be, especially if they're being really rude about it themselves.
As to your feelings, I can't offer much as I went through 2 years of infertility TTCing baby #1 that included 6 failed IUIs, 1 IVF that ended in a CP and first managed to get pregnant after IVF #2. There are so many women going through infertility that would kill to be in your shoes, especially the ones that are never able to get pregnant. Might be better to write about this in the gender disappointment forum to find more women that feel like you feel and perhaps spare anyone that has been through infertility from reading this because I'm sure many of them would see it in a very negative light - I know it created negative feelings in me reading your post.
I think that's a little harsh. The OP is clearly having a hard time and needed advice and reasurence. That's what this forum is here for and she should be able to be open and honest about how she's feeling without being judged by others. I have suffered myself with infertility and multiple losses but I took no offence what so ever. Just saw a lady who needed a few kind words. She clearly says in her post she feels bad enough already so in my opinion I don't think it's nice to make her feel even worse.
I've also had multiple losses and I feel only empathy for op.
I understand that I infertility and losses r awfull.
But she never said she anything offensive still.
I agree, this is a fine place for this post, people suffering infertility would only stumble across this post if they were out to torment themselves... ( we all have days where we seek out things to upset ourselves a bit because we are already feeling poop) The op can't not post her feelings because a hypothetical person might read.
I want to first start off by saying to the entire thread that I have no problem with the OP having the feelings she's having. Every person and situation is different and people are allowed to have their feelings and share them on a forum that is specifically for pregnancy support. Now ... that part that some of you may not like or understand. I also struggled with infertility for 5 years .... 1 year of trying naturally, 6 IUIs, 5 IVFs. I did not take offense to the post however, I did want to mention that just because a person who struggles with IVF gets pregnant it does NOT take away the years or month of pain they endured. The "people suffering infertility would only stumble across this post if they were out to torment themselves" is just not true. I'm now pregnant after infertility, and in my 2nd trimester and yes she worded the title correctly and I could handle it so I read it but ... assuming that a person who struggled with infertility is all of a sudden ok or won't take offense reading stories of women who get pregnant their first or second month trying is .... a large assumption.
That said, to the OP. I'm so sorry you're feeling this way and as someone else suggested I think seeing a therapist or even just talking it out with family/friends (ones that wouldn't judge you of course) is a great idea because when your new son gets here it would make you feel worse to suffering with postpartum depression (or anything along those lines). I wish you the best of luck and hope you start feeling better!