LuckyMama13
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I have been angry and haven't spoken with a sister-in-law since the 17th of August. The story... I have two children- ages 11 and 6 and I found out I was pregnant on the 15th, a total surprise. So after telling my husband he said to go ahead and tell his family. He has 5 sisters and his mom. His mom said congratulations and his first four sisters as well. His eldest sister, immediately said "oh my god, are you going to keep it?" I told her what are you even talking about? Of course I am. She said "I think you should consider an abortion." I was so angry. This is her niece/nephew. I told her abortion is not even acceptable in our religion so how could you even consider this. And she argued and said its completely acceptable.
While everyone stands by my side, they think I should just accept this as a part of her and her rashness. I do not however and absolutely refuse to speak to her again especially since the following day she posted online in Facebook saying that I was "mentally sick" and she hated those that supported me as well. This had everything to do with the words exchanged during the fight. She said it's a mistake and I told her that SHE is the mistake. She is not stable at all, mentally or emotionally and always fights with every member of the family without cause. However, I feel that while everyone stands by their own opinions, if you know someone is absolutely against abortion and you hurt them by saying so, you owe them an apology. She has NEVER apologized to anyone before for any reason despite how wrong she is. And she said that she never will say those words to anyone. I don't care if she wants to support the idea. I don't, and this is MY baby, so she should be conscientious to that fact
While everyone stands by my side, they think I should just accept this as a part of her and her rashness. I do not however and absolutely refuse to speak to her again especially since the following day she posted online in Facebook saying that I was "mentally sick" and she hated those that supported me as well. This had everything to do with the words exchanged during the fight. She said it's a mistake and I told her that SHE is the mistake. She is not stable at all, mentally or emotionally and always fights with every member of the family without cause. However, I feel that while everyone stands by their own opinions, if you know someone is absolutely against abortion and you hurt them by saying so, you owe them an apology. She has NEVER apologized to anyone before for any reason despite how wrong she is. And she said that she never will say those words to anyone. I don't care if she wants to support the idea. I don't, and this is MY baby, so she should be conscientious to that fact