Scan day tomorrow, absolute bag of nerves!

[Bumblebeee]

I am so nervous, I feel as sick as a pig! My head is everywhere, I even forgot to put sandwiches in my daughter's lunch box We tried for this baby for a little over 4 years, had 2 miscarriages last year and a shed load of fertility meds and just can't shake the feeling that I am not lucky enough for this to work out I have had 2 scans already, 6+1 and 9w and both showed a nice strong heart beat and a wiggly little bean but they just haven't helped to calm my nerves at all. I just want this baby so badly and over the years of trying I suppose I just convinced myself that we would only ever be a family of three, all I want is to make my girl a big sister, she will be the best! She is so loving and gentle, she is the most thoughtful, empathetic little girl and she would love nothing more than a baby sister (can't be fussy there though I know!) I suppose the hormones/nerves combo is just making me a bit emotional today but I just had to get my feelings out somewhere before I have a meltdown xx

 

[stw93]

Good news is the scan is tomorrow and it will all be ok!! I just had my 12 week scan and the day before I got so so worried I just knew everything was going to be wrong I just could shake the feeling but we got to the scan and there was a happy bouncing baby with a strong heartbeat in there. I think we are just so sensitive we are the only ones that can grow these babies and sometimes it can be a lot, take a breath, remember it is all going to be ok and you have got this. Keep us updated and let us know how it goes tomorrow!

 

[sunflower82]

Aww sweetie I’m sure all is well I’m actually having so much anxiety today I feel like calling my doctor and asking her for a ultrasound today or tomorrow

 

[red_head]

I feel exactly the same - we’ve got our dating scan Friday. We’ve had a really hard time getting this far, and now I am so anxious. We’ve had scans too but before every one I make myself so anxious and I am convinced it’s over and then baby is fine and I’m happy for a day and then the worry starts again. It’s torture it really is - I keep hoping it’ll get easier but it doesn’t seem to!
I hope everything goes good for your scan xx

 

[Bumblebeee]

Thanks all, it's good to know I'm not alone, I am just hoping and praying that it is just nerves and not intuition. I think maybe you were in the first tri forums when I unfortunately had my first loss in Feb last year, I recognise your name but I was really early on when you were like 11/12 weeks, sorry to hear that it didn't go well for you either. We've both got this, we deserve it after out shitty year last year! X

 

[red_head]

Thank you. good luck today xx

 

[Rachellou]

Good luck, you’ve got this! Please update us with pics Xx

 

[busytulip]

Wishing you a beautiful scan with a great report!

 

[Rachellou]

Any news Xxx

 

[stw93]

Good Luck today, Let us know how it all goes!

 

[schneiderkm1]

Eager to see pics of your little baby! Fx for you!

 

[Bumblebeee]

All was fab thank you for asking I can't believe it, I was convinced it was intuition and not just nerves that had me feeling so down but there s/he was, rocking and rolling and just having a good old party in there! I've been bumped back 2 days but I can take that, Jan 29th due date now. I'm trying to upload a pic but it just keeps saying too big x

 

[Bumblebeee]

Ah cropping it worked

 

[red_head]

Ahh congratulations same due date as me (although I think that’ll change tomorrow) xx

 

[busytulip]

Aww great news! Lovely scan

 

[Rachellou]

Congratulations! Great news Xxxx

 

[GemmaG]

Brilliant news bumble! Your scan is amazing x

 

[stw93]

Your scan looks amazing! I'm so happy everything went well!

 

[HLx]

Congratulations

 

[Bumblebeee]

Thanks all, still can't quite get my head around it Roll on the 20 weeks scan, maybe I'll have adjusted by then!