I guess one thing to think about is, what do you think when you hear someone else's baby crying when you're out. No way would you think 'bad mother'! You'd feel sympathy at the very most! More often it doesn't even register in my head.
I used to struggle to change Ruby in public baby changing rooms as she hates the hard changing tables - if your baby is like this too, just take a travel changing mat or an old jumper or towel to go under LO, much nicer. My other tip is to use night time nappies like Pampers BabyDry when you go out if you think it might be tricky to change LO for a while.
If you FF, a small carton, an empty sterilised bottle and a little pair of scissors in your handbag or changing bag will make you feel more relaxed, even if LO not due a feed while you're out, it gives peace of mind![/QUOTE]
This is so true i BF and FF and i just cant feed her out in public so when we first went out and took the carton, bottle and scissors i felt so much more relaxed!.. she slept the whole time we were out after all that lol!