Selfish?

[stickylizard]

babies should be held by, and therefore bond with their mother and father before anybody else! im planning a vaginal homebirth but i am putting that in my birth plan too just in case! i couldnt stand the idea of anybody holding my baby before and OH xxx

 

[sjwebb]

babies should be held by, and therefore bond with their mother and father before anybody else! im planning a vaginal homebirth but i am putting that in my birth plan too just in case! i couldnt stand the idea of anybody holding my baby before and OH xxx

I labored for 10 hours with my son and my body just wasn't having it so I didn't have a choice in my c-section it made me feel horrible. I would have loved a vaginal birth. I hope your homebirth goes wonderful!!! I'm definitely going to be talking to my dr at my next appt about this. Thanks so much!

 

[stickylizard]

Oh I wasnt judging hun I was just saying even though i dont plan a c section im gonna put it in anyway just in case! i almost had one cus ellas head was stuck for an hr and a half and i had been in labour 27 hours so i was just too tired to push. just managed it! thank you i hope i get my homebirth but we shall see if baby co operates and faces down etc xxx

 

[sjwebb]

Oh I wasnt judging hun I was just saying even though i dont plan a c section im gonna put it in anyway just in case! i almost had one cus ellas head was stuck for an hr and a half and i had been in labour 27 hours so i was just too tired to push. just managed it! thank you i hope i get my homebirth but we shall see if baby co operates and faces down etc xxx

I know you weren't judging but I would have much rather had a vaginal birth haha. I'm sure baby will cooperate just fine.

 

[pooch]

I would do the same!

 

[YoshiPikachu]

I would me angry if I wasn't the first one to hold my baby. I don't blame you for doing that.