septembryos baby area (09 babies)

[badunkadunk13]

Well...today I signed onto the Soap-Opera Net!! All this drama! Anywho, here's what I think about the situation. Star-dust knows we love her (no matter if what she says on here is true or some alter-ego she's made up) we love reading her posts and listening to her nutsoid chatter all day. It's half the reason some of us sign on so much...I've actually been at work (I don't have a computer at work) and thought, "What is Star-Dust saying right now on BnB?" Hmmm...signs of being a loser or an addict? There's a thin line I believe. Anyway, back to what I was saying. She knows we love her and what she has to say...she'll either come back, or she won't. It's her choice depending on how she feels and we won't judge her either way.

4thBump -- Don't apologize. Sisters fight. It's definitely what we're best at! I'm sorry that a falling out that you two had lead to this publicly, but I think I speak for most of us when I say that I understand. Hopefully, you two will make up.

Whew...only one other thing I was going to say before I read all those posts...

Babytots - I didn't connect with my son until a year after he was born. There are many reasons for this, but mainly that I just couldn't connect with him while he was in the womb. It wasn't a gender thing, I wanted a boy, but I felt I just needed to see him to really feel like a mommy. After he was born, I still just couldn't get close to him...I think it was probably some mild post-partum depression and a WHOLE lotta frustration! Two months after he was born, I deployed to Iraq for 10 months. So, of course, I didn't connect with him then. Finally, when I returned a few days after his 1st birthday I began to connect with him. Don't get me wrong, I loved him all along, but it was so hard to feel like a mom. It was such a new experience. I never had those "motherly feelings" that some people talk about (knowing when the baby is hungry before they cry, knowing right when the baby went poop before smelling it, knowing that baby just wants a hug)...I had to create a regimine. Check the diaper, clean, OK, give a bottle, not hungry, OK, hold and bounce up and down a little bit, that's what he needed. Anyway...just wanted to let you know that you're not alone in the whole not connecting thing.

OK well I hope that everything here in this forum works out as far as people knowing that we love them and want them to stay. Talk to everyone soon.

 

[Eoz]

I hope she does come back she had a laugh on here and you guys need it as pregnancy can be a long slog.Get here to come back.I'm not stopping herany way just thought i would say why i thought she had gone didnt need an ear bashing

 

[badunkadunk13]

Hmm...just re-read my post and by "signs of being a loser or an addict" I totally ment myself and my thinking about Stardusty comments while at work. Thought that that comment seemed like it could go a direction I didn't intend for it to go and wanted to clarify!

 

[Siyren]

sorry, i had no intention of upsetting you.
i just felt you needed to hear the other side of what you were saying

 

[Siyren]

Hmm...just re-read my post and by "signs of being a loser or an addict" I totally ment myself and my thinking about Stardusty comments while at work. Thought that that comment seemed like it could go a direction I didn't intend for it to go and wanted to clarify!

lmao i'm just the same
lmao, and got what you meant entirely

 

[Eoz]

thats cool hun i'm easy going.I'm angry cos you girlies deserved a better explanation.Take care xxxxx

 

[misswren]

there isn't much happenin in Vin Diesels pants if you wanna be on this forum when you ain't even due in Sept mate

 

[Eoz]

whatever MATE i have been nice the whole time

 

[Siyren]

thats cool hun i'm easy going.I'm angry cos you girlies deserved a better explanation.Take care xxxxx

i'd just like to say ive been given a more than adequate explanation, much more than i would ever have expected, and i think i speak for atleast me and misswren when i say i'd appreciate it if you could leave the matter alone now.
as misswren said, your not due in september

 

[Wobbles]

I don't know the full situation but wanted to confirm I know of some ...

Sisters will fight but also if there are lies being told its in a way trolling and maybe needed to be brought up as this is a supportive forum based on truth. I don't have any judgement but I can confirm we have had problems with star-dust in the past only she created a different name ..until tonight had no idea 4thbump was related.

I don't feel some of the replies to 4thbump are acceptable either tbh - the interest of the forum and its members always come first over 'like' so cool it down girls I'd hate to have to lock this thread.

x

 

[misswren]

This is a long goodbye.....

 

[badunkadunk13]

WHOA!! ENOUGH!!

Let's just leave it alone. Agree to disagree and bring the positivity back to this forum.

misswren - I understand you're upset and where you're loyalties lie, but attacking 4th isn't going to accomplish anything except getting your blood pressure up and you know you shouldn't be doing that!!!

4thBump - I understand that you and your sister had a falling out and yes you have been polite and nice so far and thank you for that. But the same goes for you...continuing arguing is only going to get you angrier and bring up your blood pressure and you know you shouldn't be doing that either!!!

You can't bring this to blows as it's just words, so let's just move on. I love signing on each day because it USUALLY brings a smile to my face to read the comments. Let's get back to that.

 

[misswren]

sorry wobbles....plead hormones, apologies to all, I was being tongue in cheek trying to lighten mood, very sorry for any offence caused, can we all change the subject?

 

[Siyren]

whatever MATE i have been nice the whole time

hon, your publically bringing to everyones attention that your SISTER!! has something in her past she'd rather not talk about.
i'm quite sure if i took a look i could find something that covers this being a bit of a no no in the rules.
it was a matter we were all aware of, aside possibly whoever it was who joined today (sorry hon your name escapes me) and it didnt need resurecting

 

[Wobbles]

there isn't much happenin in Vin Diesels pants if you wanna be on this forum when you ain't even due in Sept mate

i'd just like to say ive been given a more than adequate explanation, much more than i would ever have expected, and i think i speak for atleast me and misswren when i say i'd appreciate it if you could leave the matter alone now.
as misswren said, your not due in september

Please don't be rude to members theres a way to say things without crossing the line!

 

[misswren]

I have an anecdote
I will share it in the interests of humour...

 

[Siyren]

and in light of the previious posts.....


*begins to water ballon misswre and badankadunk**
and i hope that anecdote is the nun one!

 

[Siyren]

apologies wobbles.

 

[Eoz]

sorry wobbles....plead hormones, apologies to all, I was being tongue in cheek trying to lighten mood, very sorry for any offence caused, can we all change the subject?

Yes as I said I just wanted to voice my concerns.Take care and enjoy your pregnancies.I am a september baby as I said many posts ago when I wanted to see who was due on the 09/09/2009 as it's a good date to give birth on! Bye x

 

[misswren]

(err I thought the Vin Diesel thing was funny as its evidently a joke location btw sorry, my bad)

Today I was dying my hair a very vivid red and if anyone has ever dyed their hair they will know the actual gloop is pretty much like fake blood!

So, I wrapped it in cling film and I whacked a towel over (stops drips and keeps moisture plus activates dye coz close to head...I've had so many disasters I have picked up tips, but I digress) then the flamin postie calls!! So I have the towel over head like a habit and try to maintain some dignity as I sign for a rattly package which looks dodge (was in fact party stuff for my soon to be 6 year old) and the postie understandably looks at me like I am nuts.

I sign, shut the door, glance in the mirror and there is a big drip right down my face as if I have had a lobotomy or just encountered Sylar off heroes.....

But, on the plus side, my mate was having a bad morning at work so the pic of this I texted her cheered her up no end......