Kirei
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Gah, so I went to the library today, wearing LO in my mei tai. I wrapped her up really warm with my old pregnancy coat around both of us because it was pretty cold out today. Head close enough to kiss, she's really happy and goes to sleep, nice and comfy. We got to the library and a lady I know is outside and wants to look at her, but she talked quite loudly and woke her up! I said I'm going to go in the library to feed her. A man there was saying oh she can't breathe, that's why she's crying! I felt awful, I was trying to explain of course she can breathe but she's hungry but then he left anyway. By now she is screaming. I'm sure she's hungry so instead of trying to shift the mei tai down and latch her on like I sometimes do I take her out and give her a cuddle first because she never latches well if she's crying. I feel like everyone's staring at me. There are some young boys around so I decide when she's calm (library staff said how cute she looks!) I put her back in the mei tai (getting my straps tangled up because I'm flustered so taking ages over it). Because she smells my milk I guess she starts crying again, but I manage to latch her on and sit down to feed her. I just felt like everyone was staring at me thinking I'm a terrible mother. I found myself justifying myself to the library lady, saying she doesn't like it in the pram, she wants to be close to me. Once she's feeding well I put my coat back on and walked out and she was fine all the way home, went back to sleep after her nap and is asleep in the mei tai now. It was so embarrassing. Anyone got any tips, do I just need to get more confident?