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HerdingDogs
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I think my mom might turn around by the time Sept rolls around. She texted me today because I talked to her yesterday about going on some infant care tours. She couldn't because of work, but then texted me suggesting a live in nanny or a Thai nanny like she hired when she had my brothers. We had an actual discussion about it on the phone and the 5 reasons (my pets) it wouldn't work. Then, she asked me about krav and complimented me for not going anymore since it is dangerous. AND she asked about my MS. There was something else that was like I cannot believe she said that (in a good way). She did say my brother is outrageously POed at me, but in the same breath she asked if I was coming over this weekend. When I said I had to clean out my garage (so I can move the snake to the garage, dining table to the kitchen, and leave that space clear she cautioned me about moving stuff. OH! It was the cat littler. The last thing she said to me was, "K, love you. Be careful when you clean the cat litter." She's not happy, but she's accepted I am an adult who makes my own choices. Which is nice. Because BD is not responding to my texts. I only sent two. Anyway. Thought I would share because I was flipping out the other day and a lot of you tried to assure me my mom would eventually come around but I couldn't see the end of the tunnel. We're still a ways away, but there's a flickering dot of light!