Should he see her more?

[Laura--x]

Basic question i wont go into any details...

FOB sees Maisie every thursday and satruday from 1pm-5pm.

Should he see her more often?

 

[lou_w34]

Seems plenty too me,
She's still quite young, and i imagine she wouldnt want to be away from you

 

[sweetlullaby]

I think it sounds ok...as lou_w34 said your daughters still young and it could unsettle her being away from you too much. xx

 

[McLovin]

I agree with the others, seems fine considering how young she is.
Is he pestering for more then, or do you want him to have her more?
x

 

[Laura--x]

Hes told a few of my friends how he 'hardly gets to see her'.

So i wasnt sure if he wasnt seeing her enough?

 

[McLovin]

arse - sorry but if he has a problem he should tell YOU about it, not anyone/everyone else

 

[Laura--x]

Exactly! I dont know whether to say anything to him or not? Would you? I want too, but then i feel like ill start another argument.x

 

[princess_bump]

i think that seem's plenty hon! it's every weekend plus a night in the week, and i agree, she's still quite young x

 

[Char&Bump-x]

My daughter spends one night a week with my mum, and she's half the age of maisie so i dont think age really matters.

It's whether you feel comfortable at the end of the day. Would you be fine with him seeing her more? If yes, and he wants to, then go for it. If no, its ultimately your decision x

 

[McLovin]

you could ask him if he's happy with the current arrangements, and if he says no then ask him what he proposes and say you'll think about it.
Also, I would add that you rather he "spoke to you first if he has any problems with the situation because you're not a mind reader and you don't appreciate being slated like that"

he is in a way insinuating to other people (your friends!) that you don't care about whats best for your LO. It's not on at all

 

[McLovin]

just to add..... if he says he is happy - then I'd ask him outright what he's playing at slagging you off - I'm dead against this kind of thing. It's so out of order and really not called for