Morning All,
Hope you are all ok, and say Hi to your beans for me!
Anyway, yesterday was my OH's Birthday, and us being skint and me been stuck in an antenatal clinic all day meant that I couldnt do much about it.
But I did try!
Anyway when I got home I checked the mail and there was an open card, so admittedly naughty me had a sneaky look at it!
It was from his Ex Girlfriend who he has not been with in over a year!!! WTF? She didnt send one last year!
Anyway I closed it up and let him open it when he got in, He was trying to avoid opening it in front of me, and he must have recognised her hand writing.
Anyway I kind of bullied him into it and when I asked who it was from he stuttered a little and then told me.
Now he told me that this girl had moved abroad in November, and that she had text him in November for them to meet up (Although last time he spoke about her he said she didnt have his number?!).. So if she was away then how was this card post marked and franked in our home town?!
He said he was going to throw it away, but no sign of it in the bin (I didnt root, it was pretty empty!) So when I casually asked him this morning he said he had taken it to work to shred it?! Why?! The bin would have been sufficient!
I dont for the life of me think he has seen her let alone done anything with her since we have been together, but why lie about numbers and then hide the card (wouldnt be surprised if he had thanked her for it!)?
I said why dont you just text her and tell her your engaged and going to be daddy in 2010 so to just leave you alone, but he said he 'didnt see the point in making contact'
Am I being silly here? Should I just let this go?!
Sorry for rant xxx
Hope you are all ok, and say Hi to your beans for me!
Anyway, yesterday was my OH's Birthday, and us being skint and me been stuck in an antenatal clinic all day meant that I couldnt do much about it.
But I did try!
Anyway when I got home I checked the mail and there was an open card, so admittedly naughty me had a sneaky look at it!
It was from his Ex Girlfriend who he has not been with in over a year!!! WTF? She didnt send one last year!
Anyway I closed it up and let him open it when he got in, He was trying to avoid opening it in front of me, and he must have recognised her hand writing.
Anyway I kind of bullied him into it and when I asked who it was from he stuttered a little and then told me.
Now he told me that this girl had moved abroad in November, and that she had text him in November for them to meet up (Although last time he spoke about her he said she didnt have his number?!).. So if she was away then how was this card post marked and franked in our home town?!
He said he was going to throw it away, but no sign of it in the bin (I didnt root, it was pretty empty!) So when I casually asked him this morning he said he had taken it to work to shred it?! Why?! The bin would have been sufficient!
I dont for the life of me think he has seen her let alone done anything with her since we have been together, but why lie about numbers and then hide the card (wouldnt be surprised if he had thanked her for it!)?
I said why dont you just text her and tell her your engaged and going to be daddy in 2010 so to just leave you alone, but he said he 'didnt see the point in making contact'
Am I being silly here? Should I just let this go?!
Sorry for rant xxx