Should I worry about late ovuation and possible M/C?

[Kimiw]

yeah, I don't want to give up the hope, it's just we have been trying for 6 years, I can't even imagine getting a bfp. I have been seeing bfn's for so many years that a bfp just does not seem practical...you know? It is weird I don't know. It must be the clomid because one minute I cry then I am feeling stupid for crying then I cry because I don't know why I am so sad lol.

 

[bexxc]

i've heard a lot of girls say that clomid is worse than injectables for mood swings. i felt depressed more often than not on my clomid cycles.

 

[Kimiw]

how many cycles did it take you again? When did you start to feel pregnancy symptoms? What were your first ones? lol sorry for so many questions.

 

[bexxc]

i had 5 rounds of clomid, a round of femara, and then one more round of clomid. at that point i finally told dh i wasn't doing anything else until he had an sa...he was refusing to believe that there could possible be anything wrong aside from my pcos. his sa was grim and we were told we needed icsi. anyway, we took a break from treatments and just went the natural route and i got pregnant right before we started downregging.

i didn't really have any recognizable symptoms before getting a pos. hpt. looking back, from about 6 dpo i was EXHAUSTED, but i was working full time and also in grad school, so i thought i was just burned out. i got my bfp at 9 dpo, i had ib at 12 dpo...and then the horrid, horrid constipation started! glad that went away after first tri!

 

[Kimiw]

ugh, I am not looking forward to the constepation, I have heard from other women it is HORRIBLE. It took me 3 years to get DH to get an SA done, he was so stubborn and didn't believe he could have any issues, he blammed it all on my PCOS. Well, he finally did one and it came back very bad! He had almost no living sperm! Well, after three more years I made him do it again. I refused to believe there was anything wrong because first of all the doctor had him (sorry if this is tmi) ejaculate inside of me then they extracted the semen from me. BAD! I made the doctor do it again and he said he wouldn't...well...I INSISTED so he wrote him another order for one and sure enough he came back normal (this time done the right way). I WAS PISSED we spent 3 years thinking we were completely screwed.

 

[bexxc]

wow...you'd think they would have started with just a normal sa. that sounds so weird. my dh is an alcoholic. i insisted that he quit drinking while we were saving for icsi. i'm pretty sure that did the trick. i was pregnant within two months. i could choke him a little because i spent two years blaming myself for everything when it was mostly him all along, but at least it got him to see how damaging alcohol was. i sure do like him a lot more sober.

 

[Kimiw]

I bet! I hope he stays that way, that must be so hard. My best friend has a husband who is an alchololic and she gets so sick of his crap lol.

 

[bexxc]

ugh- it was miserable. i'm so glad he stopped. he had worse mood swings than me!

 

[Kimiw]

alcohol will do that, I'm sorry you have had to deal with it. People can change though

 

[bexxc]

i guess nobody's relationship is perfect. in a sense i'm really lucky that we went through all that infertility business because it brought him to his senses. who knows...maybe everything does happen for a reason

 

[Kimiw]

I think everything does happen for a reason. I am glad things are going so well for you

 

[bexxc]

so you're around 6 or 7 dpo right now, right?

 

[Kimiw]

so you're around 6 or 7 dpo right now, right?

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