katherinegrey
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I can see pros and cons for both sides to be honest. My mother had a small age gap between my brother and sister, just sixteen months, and she keeps telling me not to do it, and wait until my LO is at school But my brother and sister are in their late thirties, so there were no disposable nappies, no wet wipes, nothing there is today that makes it so much easier. And to be honest, my dad wasn't great, he was never a hands on dad, where as my DH really is and really helps me out.
I would love a smaller age gap, for so many reasons (the main one is I'm broody ) but everyone looks at me like I'm crazy when I say I want another one sooner rather than later.
So I'd like to hear off ladies with either small or larger age gaps, how is really for you? Would you advise against it like my mother does? Or is it the best thing you ever did? Ladies with larger age gaps, how is it getting a child to school and fetching them back with a newborn? Is it better when they're a bit more independent? Not in nappies or pushchairs etc?
I would love a smaller age gap, for so many reasons (the main one is I'm broody ) but everyone looks at me like I'm crazy when I say I want another one sooner rather than later.
So I'd like to hear off ladies with either small or larger age gaps, how is really for you? Would you advise against it like my mother does? Or is it the best thing you ever did? Ladies with larger age gaps, how is it getting a child to school and fetching them back with a newborn? Is it better when they're a bit more independent? Not in nappies or pushchairs etc?