WackyMumof2
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I've just found out I'm expecting baby #4. I'm happy don't get me wrong. I'm in a different mind set than I was last year when I found out I was pregnant last Jan. But I am just so scared that I'll have a forth boy. I mean, a healthy baby is our main goal and that I should be happy but I know I am going to be upset. It won't affect me loving him or bonding but all hubby and my eldest have ever wanted is a little girl. Anyone else?? I don't even want to know the sex this time for fear of another boy. My reasons are very valid for not wanting another boy as DS2 has severe ADHD and ODD while DS1 is waiting for confirmation on SPD. It's been suggested that he too has ADHD - Inattentive Type though. So far DS3 who is 8 months doesn't present the same way as DS2 did and sleeps WAY better than DS1 so I think we've dodged a bullet but just so worried that I could have ADHD for #3 and #4 as well. I hate feeling like this but I just don't know how else to feel - and this baby was planned too.