Goldielocks44
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Hi everyone!
I'm new to this site and this is my 1st post
We have been trying to conceive for nearly a year now with no success yet
Feels like it always seems to be the way that you are surrounded by people who are either pregnant or just had a baby! I make a big fuss of my friends who have had or are having a baby, but at times it's so hard to put a brave face on it all the time, when we are ttc and desperately want a family. Don't get me wrong I am so happy for them......it's just hard isn't it.
What's made it harder lately is that when I've been visiting new
Mums is that people always make comments like "Come on, get a move on and have a baby" or "It's your turn now" or "don't you want children". I know they don't really know me but it really does hurt like hell. And makes me want to scream out loud DON'T YOU THINK I'M TRYING!!!!
Sorry guys it's a bit of a depressing 1st thread but I just wondered if I'm alone in feeling this way-almost makes me feel like a bad person for feeling this way
Thanks everyone and nice to meet you
Goldielocks xxxx
I'm new to this site and this is my 1st post
We have been trying to conceive for nearly a year now with no success yet
Feels like it always seems to be the way that you are surrounded by people who are either pregnant or just had a baby! I make a big fuss of my friends who have had or are having a baby, but at times it's so hard to put a brave face on it all the time, when we are ttc and desperately want a family. Don't get me wrong I am so happy for them......it's just hard isn't it.
What's made it harder lately is that when I've been visiting new
Mums is that people always make comments like "Come on, get a move on and have a baby" or "It's your turn now" or "don't you want children". I know they don't really know me but it really does hurt like hell. And makes me want to scream out loud DON'T YOU THINK I'M TRYING!!!!
Sorry guys it's a bit of a depressing 1st thread but I just wondered if I'm alone in feeling this way-almost makes me feel like a bad person for feeling this way
Thanks everyone and nice to meet you
Goldielocks xxxx