Lawhra
NowProudMumOfTwo!!
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OH was posted from his unit to a 2 year posting a 45 min drive from where I live which was great because it meant he would definitely be here for baby's birth. But he is miserable there and wants to go back to his old unit which would mean a 6 month tour in Afghanistan leaving in May. I am due 30th July. He is hoping, if that does happen, to take R&R a week before due date and paternity leave straight after so as to try and make sure he wouldn't miss the birth. But it is not a guarantee. And it would mean he would miss the end of the pregnancy. This is his first child and I wanted him around
I can't ask him to stay where he is because 6 months is a long time to be miserable and I couldn't carry the guilt. I can just about deal with him just missing the last 2 months of pregnancy but to miss the birth? I would be absolutely devastated. I want him with me
I can't ask him to stay where he is because 6 months is a long time to be miserable and I couldn't carry the guilt. I can just about deal with him just missing the last 2 months of pregnancy but to miss the birth? I would be absolutely devastated. I want him with me