Thanks Wookie.
I tend to be one of the least patient people on the planet as a general rule and today was no exception. I was trying to encourage dw to test today so that if it is a BFP, we could start scheduling tests for next week. She said she wanted to wait longer and when I asked her why, I didn't expect the answer I got. She said she needed time to wrap her head around going back into the ob/gyn office that she hasn't been to since her post op check up and that she just wasn't ready for the need to go to be a confirmed reality yet. My heart just broke for her. She is not a terribly sentimental person and I am ashamed to admit that her concern hadn't even occured to me until she said something. SO...for now, I am the picture of patience.