elle1981
Expecting 4th and last LO
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i have 3 beautiful children 2 girls and a boy and by a previous marriage. I am with a wonderful man and I am pregnant with our first child together (my fiance has a son who is 12) and I am desperate for a girl...to the point that I am so worried that I wont be able to bond with this baby if its a boy!
I feel like I am being ridiculous and ungrateful. I have both already, it really shouldnt make a difference but I know my oh would love a girl. Plus I love my little man to bits but he's such a live wire, i would love that peace and quiet a little girl brings, not only that boys clothes and stuff are just so borrrrring! Girls stuff is always so pretty and cute.
I am now struggling whether to find out the sex or stay team yellow... 1 side is that I have plenty of time to come round to the idea if it is a boy, but if I stay team yellow, after the labour and birth wont I just be pleased, happy and over the moon no matter what it is?
I feel so confused and ungrateful!
Thanks for listening xx
I feel like I am being ridiculous and ungrateful. I have both already, it really shouldnt make a difference but I know my oh would love a girl. Plus I love my little man to bits but he's such a live wire, i would love that peace and quiet a little girl brings, not only that boys clothes and stuff are just so borrrrring! Girls stuff is always so pretty and cute.
I am now struggling whether to find out the sex or stay team yellow... 1 side is that I have plenty of time to come round to the idea if it is a boy, but if I stay team yellow, after the labour and birth wont I just be pleased, happy and over the moon no matter what it is?
I feel so confused and ungrateful!
Thanks for listening xx