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Twingirls2yrs+babygirl
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I really don't know what's best
I work at a school for children with special needs and the majority of our students have some form of autism in varying degrees of severity. I also am raising a child with autistic tendencies, but not autism. She has developmental disabilities caused by microcephaly and an unknown genetic condition.
My best advice is that special needs schools can be very expensive and unless her autism is so severe that she would be completely unable to socialize or function in a mainstream classroom, or in a special needs classroom in a mainstream school, then begin in a mainstream school, especially if finances are tight.
Tuition at our school is $54,000 a year for 1-to-1 assistance. We provide education geared towards the students' developmental age, but also supportive assistance in the form of varying therapies, toileting and ABA and IBI. Most of our students have a portion of their tuition covered by governmental programs for autism, but the remaining tuition can be a huge blow to a family's income.
I want to send our daughter to the school I work at, but we are unable to afford tuition at the moment, and as our daughter does not have a diagnosis of autism, we cannot have any portion funded. Instead, we have chosen to start her in a mainstream classroom in a mainstream school and go from there. The option to switch her to a special needs school will always be available should we find that she needs extra support that a mainstream school cannot provide.
Alternatively, mainstream schools also work with special needs schools. A number of our students attend our school only two or three days a week and attend a mainstream school the rest of the week, or they attend our school in the mornings, 5 days a week and attend a mainstream school in the afternoons.
There is also the option of her attending a special needs school for a year or two, or however many years you feel is necessary and the special needs school works with the mainstream school to integrate the student back into a mainstream classroom. We currently have two students at our school doing this and it is working very well.
I hope this helped, from the perspective of someone who works within the special needs school. If you have any other questions, feel free to ask and I will do my best to answer them.