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[Redfraggle]

Thanks everyone. Glad to know I'm not over reacting.

I got the normal 'you can always adopt' and the you make your own luck came after my refusal to give up my dream of being pregnant.

 

[LadyKam]

I will not give up my dream of becoming a mother and no one better not tell me otherwise. Most people don't know we have started actively trying again but they always are asking when are we having kids. Again there are some people who are different. There are many situations people tell me about and while I have sympathy for them I cannot relate because I haven't been through it personally so I don't know the impact it is, so I don't say much. Many people who have not been ttc and not been able to conceive will never understand and not at all. I have no trouble telling them or sticking up for others. Unless you have longed for a child only to hear those dreaded words that it may or may not happen or they cannot help you or your only chances to conceive is assisted conception they want understand. TTc is a roller coaster for many. One day you fine the next your a bundle of nerves. Other women will mock you because it was easy for them so they wonder what's wrong with you.

Every time ttc women see babies its hard to control the emotions. It all comes up again. Don't mention the baby showers you are invited to. In the back of our mind as positive as we want to be sometimes we wonder if and when will it really happen. No one can ever understand a mother's quest to have a baby. I say mother because its already inside of us to be a mother. We just begin to use all the tools of motherhood when we have our bundles of joy.

Sorry for the long post ladies it just makes me sad how sometimes some women but not all doesn't seem to understand. They love their children and couldn't see living without them. We are the same, probably named them like (me), I have names already, we cannot see living in this world without them and their just not here yet. Most of us women would trade everything we ever had just to have our babies. I know if that the only thing it would cost I would hand it over quickly so my husband and I could both finally have our extension of our family. Thank you ladies for letting me post and I hope I have not offended anyone in any way. I just kinda helps me to feel like I am sticking up for myself and other women ttc because I want all of us to get the family we deserve.

 

[Rin731]

Bah. My SIL is a shit mom, and everyone tells her she's fab all the time. It nearly does me in.

Her kids are in daycare 50 hrs a wk and MIL (my DH's mom) has them every other weekend! And soooo spoiled!

I want a chance to be a GOOD mom sooo badly!

She's also the one who says, "Are you sure you want one of these?!".