Spotting. Going on Day 3. Help.

[sassy_tiger]

Any one else gone threw this? I don't fill up a pad at all. Its only when I wipe and its brown more than anything. I feel like I'm just waiting for a miscarriage to happen but it hasn't happened yet. I'm okay with it happening. I'm kind of like is it or isn't it? I'm more worried it could be something worse like an ectopic pregnancy that is slowly happening. I have doctor appointment on the 9th of May. I left a message for my doctor to see if they can do an ultrasound just to see whats going on. I'm sure i'll get denied and will have to wait. Yay. Anyway any one out there that has gone threw this before? Oh yeah I've had one miscarriage before back in 2011 and it started and ended fast.

*I don't mean to offend any one by posting here.

** I got a call from the doctor and she said I just have to wait it out. So much for that. I just want to make sure I'm going to be okay.

 

[momwithbabies]

Sorry you are dealing with this. Any updates? I hate how insensitive doctors can be. You just want to know so you can emotionally prepare. I get it.

 

[sassy_tiger]

Sorry you are dealing with this. Any updates? I hate how insensitive doctors can be. You just want to know so you can emotionally prepare. I get it.

I had a feeling from the beginning something was wrong. I kept on taking a digi test and cheapie pregnancy test. Well the line on the cheapie test never got darker. The digi test kept on saying 1-2 weeks when i should be further along. And then the line on the cheapie test were allot lighter. Like you could barley tell its positive. Then I started spotting for about 4 days but nothing came. Until I had it sped everything up. I had a feeling that would give me a reassuring answer. I'm okay with it. I wasn't okay being in limbo. I just wanted to know what was going on. I wanted to make sure I wasn't going to have an ectopic pregnancy. Instead my doctor thought I wanted to prevent it. Which I wasn't. I've already gone threw this once. I wish I had a doctor that was more caring. That understood that I wasn't trying to stop it. I was trying to figure out what was going on with my body. Oh yeah also my vivid dreams were going away towards the end when I was spotting. Now that my period back I got acne back with a vengeance. My doctor did tell me that I shouldn't try right away after a miscarriage for at least 3 months. She really didn't say why and I was asking other questions. My last miscarriage I got pregnant again the next month and had no problem so I don't really get why she said to wait.... Any experience with that? Thanks for getting it and replying

 

[momwithbabies]

I'm unsure why they said 3 months. I've heard people say they had to have one normal cycle before trying again, but I have no idea what is standard.

Sorry for your loss, and I hope everything turns out okay.

 

[ttc126]

My dr told me to wait 3 months. But I have underlying health issues. I am sorry for your loss though

 

[LunaMoon]

I had a similar experience. 3 days of spotting, no pain. My doc told me to go to the hospital for an ultrasound. I did have a mc It's been about a week for me, I'm waiting to see my doctor to hear her recommendation on when to try again. From what I have heard though, there doesn't appear to be much consensus on what the standard is.