nadupoi
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It's that whole WTT thing.
I hate it sometimes.
See, I'm nearly 18, OH is 18. We've been together for almost 2 years and know we're meant to live the rest of our lives together. I'm ready to grow up and get to the part of my life that I've looked forward to for the LONGEST time. He still wishes sometimes that he had more freedom. Obviously, he won't settle.
But we'd be such amazing parents. Our minds are almost perfectly in tune with the other. We both want kids. But both know it's not the time.
We plan to go to college together next year (but have to live on campus so there goes the plan of getting an apartment together). We both work stable jobs. I make about $400-$500 a month and he makes almost that if not equal as a manager at a nearby restaurant. Both of us have cars (which we pay for), I have a cell phone(which I pay for), and I buy everything else.
Short of living together, we're practically taking care of ourselves already. And I'd totally try convincing him to take a year off after we graduate and ttc, but I know that there are some things as individuals we'd miss out on, and opportunities our child would miss out on. Plus, there's no savings.
I just hate it. I'm the type of person that likes to move forward. And every time I get that little hint that I might be preggo, I get baby fever really BAD!! AHHH what to do when I'm not going anywhere right now. Not even moving towards college or any of the stuff we've got to do before we ttc. I hate standstills.
okay i'm done.
I hate it sometimes.
See, I'm nearly 18, OH is 18. We've been together for almost 2 years and know we're meant to live the rest of our lives together. I'm ready to grow up and get to the part of my life that I've looked forward to for the LONGEST time. He still wishes sometimes that he had more freedom. Obviously, he won't settle.
But we'd be such amazing parents. Our minds are almost perfectly in tune with the other. We both want kids. But both know it's not the time.
We plan to go to college together next year (but have to live on campus so there goes the plan of getting an apartment together). We both work stable jobs. I make about $400-$500 a month and he makes almost that if not equal as a manager at a nearby restaurant. Both of us have cars (which we pay for), I have a cell phone(which I pay for), and I buy everything else.
Short of living together, we're practically taking care of ourselves already. And I'd totally try convincing him to take a year off after we graduate and ttc, but I know that there are some things as individuals we'd miss out on, and opportunities our child would miss out on. Plus, there's no savings.
I just hate it. I'm the type of person that likes to move forward. And every time I get that little hint that I might be preggo, I get baby fever really BAD!! AHHH what to do when I'm not going anywhere right now. Not even moving towards college or any of the stuff we've got to do before we ttc. I hate standstills.
okay i'm done.