starting to feel pretty bitter.

[dizzyshell]

great to read someof us comming out and finally admitting how we truely feel.
im a member of another great forum called so femmine(cant spell it) its called trying for a baby .And there's a group of about 25 and so many of girls have got bfp in 1month some getting bfp everymonth but m/c but next month bfp again .ladies with children under 1 getting preggo.It just isnt fair and same old girls are left me inc and i wanna scream and i even find ithard to say congrats sometimes .This week alone 3 bfps again
and im getting to stage wherei might leave the site because its getting to me now.all bfp now .

i feelso sadsometimes 16months now i even got clear blue fertility mointor been using it 6months andnothing and opks nothing.ive had bloods , ultra sound and everthings fine gotadye test 3rd may and thats it .

i actually got bfp in 6weeks 5yrs ago sadly had abortion long story but often thinkimdoomed.
also got a spell off mia angel ebay .

i so hope get bfp one day id be happy just for one child , id be forever greatful xxx

 

[Tattoo]

I know the feeling! One of my friends is due next week, and it really gets my goat when she talks about how hard ttc was, and how not getting pregnant straight away frightened her. How long did she try for, before getting her bfp? Three months.

 

[bunni84]

think its one of those days definitely...i just made a thread saying the same too!

so many women at my work place are pregnant and i feel jealous..i dont like feeling like that!

Also my sis in law pregnant again and having her 2nd in 3 years (she got an 18 month old, and wasnt even trying and got preg twice...grr) and people asking when im going to have one...you think the way they talk its so easy to get preg?! - i feel so...blah!

 

[Sumaspikey]

Just think of the big grin YOU will have when you announce your

That made me smile! And you're right; all you can do is try to ignore everyone else and just concentrate on YOU. Don't feel bad for feeling bitter; it's natural, you are by no means the only one. I gave up long ago trying to be happy for everyone who got pregnant accidentally or after their very first month; for the next god knows how many months I will be a stroppy, bad tempered cow and I don't care!

What also gives me hope is that I have a wonderful friend who was trying for her first for 18months before it finally happened and I have to say I love her all the more for it. In the future my other friends will be trying for babies, maybe it will take them years to conceive and I will be there for all of them because I know what it's like. We will all be able to give support to other LTTTCers that others who got their BFPs straight away can never even begin to understand.

 

[star7474]

i feel the same! TTC for over a year, nothing! and my friend literally keeps getting pregnant one after the other! I love her children to bits but its so hard even helping her with sorting the baby clothes for her next delivery in a couple of week.

Im due a USS at the end of the month, so at least ill see if theres anything wrong that they can hopefully fix

 

[dizzyshell]

this thread getting lot posts which is great , cuz i thought i was alone .after 16months im starting to wonder if it will ever happen ,i spent fortune on opks/cbfms im cd 9 and got 5opks left after that this cycle , im forgetting opks and gonna chill out cuz this crap is driving me round the bend now tbh .

 

[loopy013]

Hi Ladies, totally understand how you feel we've been TTC for 8 months now and it feels like I'm never going to become a Mum
I'm going to be turning 30 before the end of the year so I feel like time is against me as I would like more than one child, but I can't even manage 1 at the moment. I agree with the Facebook thing too, about 10 of my friends have announced they are pregnant and some are on their 2nd child too, I'm pleased for them but can't help feeling a little jealous.

I'm also unhappy in my job too and unable to find a new one so its feeling as if nothing is working out - It's going to be really hard TTC for up to a year before a trip to the doctors I'm struggling now so can only sympathise with u all who have been trying for longer.

Hope it will be all of our turn's soon xxxx

 

[MrsEvans]

Hi Ladies

Having a very low day today, but i just read a really uplifting story about a woman who was trying for ages had a miscarriage and a stillborn and went on the have a lovely little boy, she believes that going through everything makes her cherish her blessing even more.
so i guess im just going to try and remember that my time will come and i'll cherish my blessing more because it wasnt easy.

Good Luck Ladies

 

[Jaylina]

Hi Ladies

Having a very low day today, but i just read a really uplifting story about a woman who was trying for ages had a miscarriage and a stillborn and went on the have a lovely little boy, she believes that going through everything makes her cherish her blessing even more.
so i guess im just going to try and remember that my time will come and i'll cherish my blessing more because it wasnt easy.

Good Luck Ladies

You're correct! The hardship in TTC - or anything you really desire - is really horrible. Once you finally get that long awaited bfp with patience and time, you will cherish that child and the moments more so than women who get pg in a blink of an eye.

It's like a reward for waiting so long that when you finally redeem it, you hold on for dear life and keep it safe and sound for the rest of your life......and I am waiting for that moment in life.

 

[Coco14]

great to read someof us comming out and finally admitting how we truely feel.
im a member of another great forum called so femmine(cant spell it) its called trying for a baby .And there's a group of about 25 and so many of girls have got bfp in 1month some getting bfp everymonth but m/c but next month bfp again .ladies with children under 1 getting preggo.It just isnt fair and same old girls are left me inc and i wanna scream and i even find ithard to say congrats sometimes .This week alone 3 bfps again
and im getting to stage wherei might leave the site because its getting to me now.all bfp now .

i feelso sadsometimes 16months now i even got clear blue fertility mointor been using it 6months andnothing and opks nothing.ive had bloods , ultra sound and everthings fine gotadye test 3rd may and thats it .

i actually got bfp in 6weeks 5yrs ago sadly had abortion long story but often thinkimdoomed.
also got a spell off mia angel ebay .

i so hope get bfp one day id be happy just for one child , id be forever greatful xxx

Aw, sorry to hear dizzy. Good luck on the HSG if all is clear I gather you will be put on clomid like me. x

 

[jenniferttc1]

AF came right on time for once this morning, onto cycle 18

 

[Freakycactus]

 

[MrsEvans]

oh sorry hun
xx

 

[jenniferttc1]

thank you ladies.

 

[Jaylina]

thank you ladies.

 

[Tattoo]

Hang in there, everyone.

 

[Coco14]

How is everyone doing today? x

 

[Lea05x]

Hi

Im pretty new to this site but wanted to share with you all that I too understand how you feel although I have only been TTC for 2 and a half months. Every month when AF arrives I could cry but Im very greatful to my OH for his support and encouragement.

Would just like to suggest a lube called pre seeds that basically we (women) have to insert up during ovulation which is sperm friendly and helps the sperm to swim better. I havent actually tried this lube however my friend did and became pregnant within a week. You can order this product online and its quite reasonably priced.

Hope you all get some good news very soon x

 

[Bradpittswife]

Aww jen sorry to hear that. This TCC business is pretty crappy!

 

[jm823]

Aww jen sorry to hear that. This TCC business is pretty crappy!

Sooo true. My husband wonders why I get soo irritated when I spray tan pregnant mothers that are like 19! & here I am gong to be 26 this May grrr...