lozzy21
Mummy to Niamh
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I think some of the people who have commeted on this thread have been a bit nieave, maybe because you havent met many people who have learning disabilitys, i not sure but they are people who have learning disabilitys who fully understand the concept and repercusions of sex but could not cope looking after a baby with out 24/7 support. They are millions of people who have learning disabilitys who live on there own, have paid jobs and get married and unless they mention they have a learning disability you wouldent have a bloody clue. Hell look at Susan Boyle, it wasent untill her brother mentioned it in an interview that any one knew.
As a support worker for people with learning disabilitys iv seen first hand the emotional trauma that they have had to go through because they have had there child taken away from them as soon as they are born, literaly with in 10-15 mins of birth because a social worker who sometimes barely knows them has deemed them incapable to raise the child.
Some of these have been married couples living with minimal support.
They have also been cases where the parents family have requested custody so that they can still have an active part in there childs life but the child has been fosterd/adopted by a stranger because the prick of a judge, again some one who dosent know these people feel it might upset them too much.
Just because we have the capacity, who are we to decide to can and cant have children?
Im also offended by people using the term vegative when refering to some one with a learning disability. Iv yet to meet one person who could come under that classification because of a disability they were born with.
People with head injurys yes but learning disabilitys hell no.
As a support worker for people with learning disabilitys iv seen first hand the emotional trauma that they have had to go through because they have had there child taken away from them as soon as they are born, literaly with in 10-15 mins of birth because a social worker who sometimes barely knows them has deemed them incapable to raise the child.
Some of these have been married couples living with minimal support.
They have also been cases where the parents family have requested custody so that they can still have an active part in there childs life but the child has been fosterd/adopted by a stranger because the prick of a judge, again some one who dosent know these people feel it might upset them too much.
Just because we have the capacity, who are we to decide to can and cant have children?
Im also offended by people using the term vegative when refering to some one with a learning disability. Iv yet to meet one person who could come under that classification because of a disability they were born with.
People with head injurys yes but learning disabilitys hell no.