*STM* Single Teen Mummy

[annawrigley]

Why are they all such nobs?!?!?!? She sounds like a right classy bird, that'll deffo last

 

[JoJo16]

omg that tattoo says it all lol!!

i have nobody to moan about. ive not seen or heard from fob since feb last year. i seriously dont even know if hes still alive lol (not that i care )

 

[Leah_xx]

FOB just came and got gracelynn( 35 mins late) after not seeing her for almost 2 weeks.

 

[lily123]

(I'm not an STM, but i still like to come see how you guys are )
Anna i've text you already lol but just wanted to say that i'm only a text away and anytime you need a friend, and i only live a train ride away (until september, then i'll live like a 5 min walk away haha!) you and Noah are always welcome at mine as well, i have a travel cot, spare high chair and spare room so you definitely need to come over for a few glasses of wine and a bitch about FOB/life!!

 

[QuintinsMommy]

omg that tattoo says it all lol!!

i have nobody to moan about. ive not seen or heard from fob since feb last year. i seriously dont even know if hes still alive lol (not that i care )

I`m in the same boat as you tho i heard from FOB a few months ago but i told him to go die.

 

[lauram_92]

i last spoke to fob when i was 12 weeks pregnant when he told me i was 'bang out of line' for telling his mum i was pregnant. well if he wasn't going to tell her then i was! turns out they want no contact
i seen him when i was 38 weeks pregnant when i went shopping. it was awkward. we never even looked at each other & he tried to avoid me so badly i hate him

 

[QuintinsMommy]

lol i always think how fucking weird it would be if i was out and saw FOB lol

 

[lauram_92]

fob has moved to cyprus apparently so i can finally go shopping without seeing his fugly face

 

[QuintinsMommy]

thats good, as far as i know fob still lives locally, I saw his mom at a store and she took my ID ( i was buying smokes ) so she clearly knew who I was and didnt say a word to me.

 

[JoJo16]

Rome thats well bad she that she didn't even say anything lol! Fob lives 5mins up the road from me and I've never bumped into him or his family. I would run if i saw them lol.

 

[QuintinsMommy]

my mom says when i become a police officer it be soo funny if i got a call about him or had to pull his car over or something!

 

[lauram_92]

^ thats so funny! does his mum know you've had his baby?

 

[QuintinsMommy]

yea i told is family when i was pregnant

 

[annawrigley]

Urgh so annoyed with FOB
Up until now we had been getting on fine, when he's back from uni he practically lives at my house and sees Noah all the time with me here and has never had a problem with it. He's never had Noah on his own and has never had any desire to, he prefers someone to be there because he is shit and doesn't know how to look after him so prefers somebody else to do the hard stuff and let him just play.
Well since getting a girlfriend or "seeing someone" or whatever you kids call it these days he's decided he never wants to see me again and wants to start having Noah on his own, starting this Sunday (it was originally Thursday but I told him he's not just flouncing in and taking Noah out of nursery because he feels like it). I saw him last night at his mum's house and he was fine with me so this has literally come out of nowhere

Him: Am I having Noah Sunday
Me: Depends what you're doing
Him: Probs go get a Subway and go to park
Me: Its due to rain
Him: Cool well I'll adapt my plan on the day if it does
Me: When you're stranded in the park? [The park he's on about is a long bus ride away and nowhere near his house]
Him: Yeah. What time shall I get him
Me: Dunno I'll come
Him: I don't want you to. I don't want to spend time with Noah while your there any more
Me: Ah right why's that
Him: Because its not enjoyable. I don't need to socialise with you x
Me: Well you've been fine with it for 14 months, things aren't suddenly changing now that you have a hoe
Him: Nope I just don't like you. And I don't need to. I want to have my son on my own. You want to cause a scene. Then I don't want to see you.
Me: When did I cause a scene? What are you even talking about? I don't like you either but have managed to put up with you this long
Him: Well there you go, we no longer need to put up with each other
Me: Funny how you suddenly decide you want him on your own when you haven't for this long. Not happening
Him: I just don't wanna see you. Is happening, I don't want to see you. Get that into your ugly skull
Me: I'm not playing your stupid games Gareth
Him: Oh so this isn't a game you're playing... Let me have my son for the day I'm his father [LOL! When it suits him!]
Me: Nope. Not now. Its not a game at all, I'm questioning your motives. And the sudden hatred for me and the need to have him on your own coincides nicely with getting a hoe. So no. Find someone else to abuse


He's not replied yet but I'm sure he's carefully constructing a nicely hateful abusive text. If he wants to play happy families with her he can knock her up (which no doubt he will). But he's not using my child as some sort of accessory, which is the only explanation I can draw from his sudden desire to take him out for the day. He can foooook off . ARGH so annoyed

ETA: Oh so she is his "girlfriend" as of today. Just seen on FB. That'll be where this came from then

 

[lauram_92]

aww anna
hows it going now with you both? he is being a right asshole! (excuse my potty mouth).. so weird he is acting like this because he has a new girlfriend. i'd do the same as you've done! except i'd probably be less calm in my replies.

& as for the 'ugly skull' part LOL LOL LOL you are sooooo far from ugly.

 

[JessdueJan]

what an idiot! Stick to your guns hun and don't let him just change everything now because of her. I'd be fuming if I was you! xx

 

[leoniebabey]

hun, i'd tell him no, until your satisfied that his motives for wanting him on his own are gueinuine (sp.) then say you'll carry on how it was or not at all, then the balls in his court really.

 

[QuintinsMommy]

i agree you are far from ugly

 

[annawrigley]

Thanks girls. He is acting like nothing even happened now which pisses me off, he apologised but only because I said "arent you gonna apologise?" The texts got ALOT worse after I posted this... He's now saying I can come to the park (oooh I'm honoured ) if its good weather and if its not we can go to the National Railway Museum (not as gay as it sounds, promise!) and the only reason he wanted Noah on his own is because he wanted his full attention. He always does this, says whatever he wants to me then carries on like nothing ever happened

 

[lily123]

I've already text you, but just wanted to add, HE IS A DICKKKK!!!! Honestly the way he treats you is just awful.
and how dare he call you ugly! You're one of the most gorgeous people i know! he's just flinging stupid inacurate insults around because he has the mentality of a 12 year old.
Pisses me off how one minute he wants to be around you all the time, constantly texts you and expects you to do everything for him like you're still his girlfriend, then the next minute he's saying he doesn't like you and doesn't want to put up with you such a bloody idiot. If i ever meet this man (which is kind of inevitable in York ) i WILL give him a piece of my mind!
xxxxxxx