strip clubs and porn

im indifferent, as long as it's not like every single day! id be pissed if my OH was out spending money on lapdances when we are struggling a bit but i watch porn myself :shrug:
 
Strip clubs and porn are disgusting its as if humans are animals.

Well, yeah! Except animals tend to not watch porn or experience lap dancers, however im not sure how monogamous they are!
 
I'm trying to imagine a dog giving a lapdance but my brain is drawing a blank :(
 
I think cows are pretty slutty tbh, just hanging out all the time, absolutely NO modesty!
 
Yeah always with their tits out, even when innocent children can see them!
 
Porn and strip clubs don't bother me at face value. I watch porn but have never been to a strip club because they just don't interest me. I'm not even sure if my OH watches porn as we don't live together and he doesn't really talk about it much. He has gone to a strip club since we've been together for a bachelor party and I'm sure he got a lap dance but I'm secure enough in our relationship to know that he's not going to suddenly be craving a different woman. He gets plenty of love, sex and affection from me at home. A strip club to celebrate a friend's trip to marriage every once in a while isn't enough to get my blood boiling.

Now if the porn or the strip clubs were interfering with our relationship I'd feel differently. Right now it would be silly of me to be upset about porn (if he does watch it) because we have a normal sex life and he is always telling me how sexy/beautiful my body is.

IMO making something forbidden only makes it that much more tempting. If it is no big deal then the mystique and allure isn't there.
 
I really would not care if my boyfriend watched porn, I don't think he does anyway. I might care if he went to a strip club though.
 
I don't mind strips clubs at all, I've been to a few here and there. Last time I went to one was the day before I found out I was preggo, so I went to a strip club while pregnant :dohh: good thing I was too cheap to buy a drink that night. We don't watch porn together here, personally I find it too awkward
 
I whent to a stripclub once by accident, when I was 17 a lad took me on a date and we where in a pub in london and I was getting realy annoyed because he spent all his time on the fruit machines so I wandered into the back room an saw this woman walking up the staires with just a towel around her.
Straight away I thought errr ok I don't think this is a normal pub so stuck my head through the back room door and there where strippers and a bouncer kicked me out saying women where not allowed back there.
I asked the lad if he knew what the place wS and he said yes and he was going back there in a bit
I walked out andhe couldn't work out why I wouldn't talk to him again
 
I mentioned it and he was like ok,until I told him I wanted to drink a few beers. He does NOT drink and is not up for me drinking at all either and so he didn't like the idea. So if he goes, I'm gonna go and have a few beers :) sounds fair to me and it just may keep him away. Im not going to lie, I've been in strip clubs with an ex, and the girls are interesting to watch as I couldn't even imagine being able to do half the stuff they do but kept in mind, he is my EX. The porn thing I think I've felt like he's always hid it so that's why I feel the way I do I think. I know alot of the guys are the same as my OH points out o me, "have you watched Manswers? It's a guy thing. " he's used that lame excuse. But I think it's everyone's own thing.
 

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