TennisGal
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At the end of the day (I hate that phrase! ) it really is no one else's concern what happens in someone else's marriage. As long as it doesn't harm anyone, why should we be bothered? We all marry, or don't, for our own personal reasons. We married in a church, the vows we took mean things to us. But it's different strokes for different folks. I don't, personally, agree with swinging...but I really don't care if someone else wants to. That's their issue. As long as I am happy with my life, my marriage and my morals...that's all that matters, surely?
My main issue on this thread is the generalisation of men. If we don't generalise marriages and relationships, why should we generalise men? I don't put my husband in the 'lives off visualising'...'wants to see porn'...'wants to go to a strip club' category. We know each other inside out, and one of the many reasons we married is because our ideals and morals are on the same page. He's not as basic as these sweeping generalisations! And we are open with each other, not furtively hiding some secret viewing thing!
My main issue on this thread is the generalisation of men. If we don't generalise marriages and relationships, why should we generalise men? I don't put my husband in the 'lives off visualising'...'wants to see porn'...'wants to go to a strip club' category. We know each other inside out, and one of the many reasons we married is because our ideals and morals are on the same page. He's not as basic as these sweeping generalisations! And we are open with each other, not furtively hiding some secret viewing thing!