Bee26
Mummy to Charlie bear!
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Hi,
I have just joined this site and already it seems fantastic, so much info!!
Im approx 8 weeks pregnant, though waiting for my dating scan to confirm this (its times like these I really wish I was one of those organised women who wrote down the dates of their last period!!)
Although my pregnancy was not planned, my partner and I are over the moon..its a wonderful thing being responsible for a new life and Im so excited to be a mum.
Despite all this I am feeling so emotional, on the verge of tears and so worried something will go wrong. Im also being a complete cow to my partner. Granted, he needs to do some growing up before becoming a father (financial growing up mainly!), but he is so excited, is good to me and will be a brilliant dad. I cant help but find everything he is saying and doing irritating, he cant do anything right and im so stroppy with him. I have even had thoughts that Id rather do this alone than with him (this is only because he recently got made redundant and I can afford to support him and a baby) I know its awful and he feels down and rejected because I wont have sex with him either (Im soooo tired and feel nausea most of the time aswell as mild abdominal cramping).
Has anyone else felt like this towards their partner in early pregnancy??..I thought this was meant to be a time when you have never felt more in love. I know he will never leave me and hes trying so hard to be a wonderful partner..I feel awful but cant help myself.
Any thoughts, advice or reassurance would be greatly appreciated!
Thankyou
Bee
I have just joined this site and already it seems fantastic, so much info!!
Im approx 8 weeks pregnant, though waiting for my dating scan to confirm this (its times like these I really wish I was one of those organised women who wrote down the dates of their last period!!)
Although my pregnancy was not planned, my partner and I are over the moon..its a wonderful thing being responsible for a new life and Im so excited to be a mum.
Despite all this I am feeling so emotional, on the verge of tears and so worried something will go wrong. Im also being a complete cow to my partner. Granted, he needs to do some growing up before becoming a father (financial growing up mainly!), but he is so excited, is good to me and will be a brilliant dad. I cant help but find everything he is saying and doing irritating, he cant do anything right and im so stroppy with him. I have even had thoughts that Id rather do this alone than with him (this is only because he recently got made redundant and I can afford to support him and a baby) I know its awful and he feels down and rejected because I wont have sex with him either (Im soooo tired and feel nausea most of the time aswell as mild abdominal cramping).
Has anyone else felt like this towards their partner in early pregnancy??..I thought this was meant to be a time when you have never felt more in love. I know he will never leave me and hes trying so hard to be a wonderful partner..I feel awful but cant help myself.
Any thoughts, advice or reassurance would be greatly appreciated!
Thankyou
Bee