sharnw
Mum to soon to be 3
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This is my 1st baby, I have now started to buy baby things, here and there, cot, pram, clothes etc and will be continuing as the weeks go by. I love picking out things that I want for my little girl...
Anyway LO is the 1st grandchild for MIL. She lives approx.10 hours away and she calls OH and tells him what she has ALREADY bought and will bring it all up when the baby is born and she is staying for 2 weeks! (I found this plan out last week by the way) Im getting upset and fustrated that she is buying things without informing me. I wouldnt have a flipping clue what she is buying/bought?! And I feel left out that I wasnt the 1 buying things because I am the mother..
Being my 1st bubby, Im am getting upset that she "is staying" with us for 2 weeks when LO arrives.
I have my own mother for that. To help me and be there for me and even stay at my house to help me with the baby. I dont even want the MIL around. I feel she will be invading my privacy... Its sending me to get the shakes and I just want to hide in the bedroom and not speak to OH.
Am I being stupid?????
I told OH how I feel, he understands what I am saying. But he doesnt want to upset his mother....
Anyway LO is the 1st grandchild for MIL. She lives approx.10 hours away and she calls OH and tells him what she has ALREADY bought and will bring it all up when the baby is born and she is staying for 2 weeks! (I found this plan out last week by the way) Im getting upset and fustrated that she is buying things without informing me. I wouldnt have a flipping clue what she is buying/bought?! And I feel left out that I wasnt the 1 buying things because I am the mother..
Being my 1st bubby, Im am getting upset that she "is staying" with us for 2 weeks when LO arrives.
I have my own mother for that. To help me and be there for me and even stay at my house to help me with the baby. I dont even want the MIL around. I feel she will be invading my privacy... Its sending me to get the shakes and I just want to hide in the bedroom and not speak to OH.
Am I being stupid?????
I told OH how I feel, he understands what I am saying. But he doesnt want to upset his mother....