Hi ladies.
It doesn't seem that long ago that I was on another forum for pregnancy after loss so understand exactly how you ladies are feeling. I was absoluly terrified thoughout my pregnancy.
I had 2 previous m/c's and also the problem of actually getting pregnant.
My story started when I was 24 and just married. We decided to try and actually fell pretty much straight away, like so many of you I suppose I just never really thought about m/c, you just think it's something that happens to someone else.
As I never had reg periods, I didnt actually know how far gone I was. I thought I was about 11 weeks, when I started to spot, again I was not overly concerned but went for a scan anyways. At the scan I had the awful news that the baby had stopped developing at about 8 weeks.
This happend in 2003 and I didnt fall pregnant again until 2008 and once again m/c at about 8 weeks. This was the May and in the following feb ( last yr ) I fell again, I never dared bel that I would go full time, I just never saw myself actually being a Mum after all the problems getting pregnant and then with the 2 m/cs. I was so scared and constantly worried every little twinge was something terrible happening. I also had some bleeding at 30ish weeks that they never found the cause for.
Finally in Oct this year Ruby was born
Please dont give up ladies and though how hard it is dont worry about every little cramp, they are normal in "normal" preg too.
Wishing you ladies all the luck in the world and may you go on to have great pregnancies and lovely little babies xxxx