Summer Peaches... going to be ripe in late July/early August!!

[misse04]

Irma All baby shower stuff looks really good! and we dont get checked until were actually in labour here or if we go over andhave a sweep.

Stardust I would be so pissed off! I dontthink your overreacting. They dont understand ho much hardwork making and carrying another human is sometimes and I think hes being a nob, he could miss football for one night! Or even if he made an effort to compromise and treat you tmo,

OH is meant to be going on work fishing trip on saturday, im praying its called of because of wind... He works for his dad and always ends up far too drunk when i was 34 weeks pregnant with connie herang me at 6 to say he was on his way home (smashed) then i never heard fromhim again til 12 and he had fucked off to the pub I didnt speak to him for days.. dont know what it is about him being with his dad think he tries to keep up or I dont know. but he has been warned any repeat perfomances and he will not be comingback through the front door and if he does I will be waiting with a gun lol

 

[stardust599]

The baby shower stuff looks awesome Aww don't worry about dilation. I have been 2-3cm dilated and gone back to closed yesterday even though I was contracting Dilation means absolutely nothing until you are about 3-4cm and getting strong regular contractions!

Still not heard from OH. Knob Tempted to keep the door locked but he will get so angry so not sure it's worth the hassle. Might just go watch True Blood in bed once he's in and ignore him for a few days. Not really any point though since he won't care anyway! He would let me have another night off if I wanted but it's not the point - I needed his help at the weekend and tonight, I'm sick of things being on his terms only.

 

[molly85]

i'm mean. I'd put his work clothes and lunch on the doorstep with a note saying if he wants more clothes and dinner tomorrow he will have start pulling his weight.

Money is not every thing but some blokes seem to think it is. We had an alcohol cut off point with Abby and Matt has now finished his supply and it won't be refreshed until after Badger is born. He can have a can here and there but that's it!

Irm nice shower bits and getting your hopes up a bit therewith the checking lol

 

[misse04]

SIL just text(she was due yesterday) shes a health visitor and shes found out who mine is and said shes not very nice erggg annoying lol. They also writ for an appoinment tmo but i cant do it so left a message and dont see why i would need a health visitor app already? Also its at a centre and I cant be bothered to drive there lol

 

[misse04]

agreed Jo! Im really stubborn like that though

 

[molly85]

lol his balls are in my handbag no matter what he thinks

 

[stardust599]

Aww I wish I could be that brave. He'll be home anytime from 10mins and I've chickened out and opened the curtains and the door LOL. I can't face the argument with him. I'm just a big pushover I will just have to make do with being sarcy and giving him the silent treatment. He won't care anyway, he just won't speak to me for a while and go out to his friends at nights until I'm in bed and he'll sleep on the couch without being asked. He might not even come home if he's read my message. Nice to feel wanted!

I posted another thread a while back and somebody suggested just starting to act like a single Mum, planning things for me and LO only and only making mine and LOs meals, making my own plans for once LO is in bed etc. but TBH he probably wouldn't even notice.

 

[irmastar]

Molly your posts always bring a smile to my face lol I know I wanted the doctor to checked me and say wow your 4 cm loool

 

[stardust599]

Well he's being "mature" he's come in all nice and says we need to talk :-S

 

[misse04]

We ended up having an argument last night too. It was so stupid it started bcause I lost his credit card (obviously not on purpose) he was annoyed and it didnt even get that bad but i copped and said i was sleeping on the sofa. He came down and kept asking me to come upstairs but i ignored him then when football finished decided to go up cause I probably wouldntbe able to walk today. Im shattered from late night but Connie got up at 6.45 so got a 'lay in'

 

[Mosnippy]

Aw ladies sorry your men are... Such men!!! Hopefully they'd come round soon an be the men you deserve xxxx

 

[Mosnippy]

your baby shower stuff is lovely!!! I need pics from mom an friend of the cakes an stuff they did for me

Today is mission wash all the clothes an bedding etc make sure everything is packed an I have everything that. Should! Full term tomorrow eeeekkkkkk

 

[misse04]

I still havent really done much. Cancelled vets because i really cant be bothered this morning and have an ill baby being sick really need to get some housework done but really dont want to do that either. erggggggg

 

[molly85]

OMG nearly spent the night in tears. every time i moved my pelvis clicked painfully!I was to hot felt sick and the top of my bump hurts. Matts now at work for 2 weeks so on singlemum duty

 

[kmbabycrazy]

I know mosnippy...full term. I have the clary sage, excercise ball, planned route for a.walk and sexy time with OH planned and at the ready. Lost another huge amount of plug and having pains but they're more at the bottom so don't think they'll turn into anything yet. But would like her to come out before she grows out of her newborn stuff lol x

 

[misse04]

Last bit is so uncomfortable! My friend asked me to go get nails done tmo and very tempted to just go and treat myself out of my saving money but dont know! hmm

 

[molly85]

if it was toe nails i would say yes!!! way to much effort reaching them.

Abby has discovered climbing to get stuff and then poking it in the video!!!

 

[misse04]

The dog is being sick aswell now!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHH Connie is being a nightmare and keeps banging her face against the sofa... i assume her teeth hurt and im going to jumpoff a bridge if she doesnt go to sleep!

 

[molly85]

ewww what has connie fed the dog?

 

[Mosnippy]

Oh noooo if I was closer to you ladies would come help you! In my own disabled way although I feel 100 percentage next you ladies ...

I washing all baby clothes an stuff today repacked hospital bags to make sure have everything added stuff for OH an added snacks never had. We Born stuff but do now so adding that in ... An packed in the new marvel comic nappy bag my mom got him ... Which Oh wants to rob haha