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Hugs stardust. Hope things get better soon.

My OH is pissing me off. He just hasn't chamged at all. He moans if i ask him to get upin the morning at like half 9 asking why should he? He is still constantly on his xbox shouting and only has lily when i ask him to so i can like go to the loo or make tea or something. Then he asks me to take he back as soon as i get back. I haven't been able to bath her properly just wash her whilst shes on her changing mat because i would like him to be part of her first proper bath. Its like nothing has changed for him. She threw uo like half her feed yesterday evening amd he didn't even help me. Just rolled his eyes at me. So i had to clean me lily and the sofa all whilst still holding her because she was fussing and xrying for food.

Rant over. For now lol.
 
Aw ladies big hugs for you not good hope dr sort out your lo soon star
Km kick his butt!!!

Good news no clots :) spent day at hospital stressed lo would wake up screaming for food but luckily he was golden an I have no clots!!

He has his heel prick today :( then we going to attempt trip to my mom

He suffers with hiccup to all the time poor thing
 
Hope your OHs and drs sort themselves out, sounds like hell stardust :(
And KM sounds like OH needs a kick up the bum!

Yay on good news Mos.

....I'm still here pregnant lol, as of 8.33am he was officially later than Connie!
 
Star considering you have to wait so bleeding long have you tried goats formula from waitrose or SMA (I wouldn't usually recommend the normal stuff) lactose free? I am so with you n milk and bottle aversion ABby was never that bad but she has nearly weaned her self off any sort of milk and just takes a bit of cheese or a yoghurt (just like her mummy).

Hugs Misse!

Ohhhhh KMB could slap him for you but know that won't help if she throws up again aim it at the x-box!

Mo good luck with your trip I think George and Chris have been talking the only way I can get rid of them is to feed him more.


Hmmm little Chris has been pretty good took and hour to settle last night not sure what I ate but made him reflux abit had to prop his mattress on a towel and wedge a dummy which he hates between his mouth and his blanket swaddle to get him sucking down. Thankfully it worked so we got some sleep. and he's on form today.

The scales love me I am now prepregnancy weight!!!!!
 
Dont think Lactose free would help :-( Its the cassein and whey he seems to struggle with. I tried half lactose milk and lactase drops but no help. I considered soy but he seems to be allergic to the thickener we've been using which is closely related to soy! I would use goats milk formula if i.could find it!

OH is being absolutely awful. No idea whats wrong but he isnt himself. Ive just packed stuff for me and LOs to go stay at my mums. Hes being really nasty, keeps losing his temper and has been saying sone really hurtful stuff. Now he is making threats about the LOs if I take them away ssying I will see "what will happen" and "he'll sort it out" because apparently im taking them away even.though iveboffered to leave them for the weekend and bring them back any night and collect before his work in the morning but apparently thats not good enough. And he made a horrible comment and laughed and smirked about me being "fucked up in the head" When hes angry he always says horrible things that cant be taken back even though Ive told him to stop before he says sonething he regrets. Hes now drcided that we're splitting up and he had emptied the joint a.c to give me half and is apparently closing it on monfay. I dont know whats happened to him I just got out of brd this korning and he was awful to.me so i asked him whats wrong and apparently i "just do his fucking head in" Chsrming!

On the plus side my anxiety etc. really arent too bad today and yesterday and i.know will be muh better when im near my mum and sister. GP on monday though and may ask for a losw dose anti depressant just to lift my mood a little when its hard xx
 
Glad you have GP sorted. God knows what your OH is up to they do get baby blues to but if he's being that nasty having the kids away from him might be better until he can calm down a bit.

Waitrose def do the Goats formula I know one of my friends had it in mind as a back up plan her LO is now 16 months and awaiting a peg tube so we've discussed the different options and that was initially 1 of them
 
Star so sorry you're going through this hun and i agree taking the kids for the weekend is probably best if he's acting like this.

OH is taking baby for a couple of hours tonight so i can have a nice long hot bath as i've only been able to grab quick showers here and there. Am also gonna catch up on my 50 shades as still only on 2nd book. Been too busy.

Jo am off to my mums and will weigh myself whilst i'm there. We'll see what they say.
 
KMB one to give you a giggle Chris is in new born clothes at under 7lbs you'd think plenty of room but no they are only just long enough
 
Bless him. She doesn't fit in anything thats for babies less than 9 and a half pounds. We've just got her in 0-3 month things x
 
:hugs: stardust hope things get better for you.
Ladies I never thought expressing was such a hard job, I don't even know if I am gonna be able to keep my supply up because I can't pump every 2 hrs, i have being pumping every 3 or 4 hrs, but I do wake up in the middle of the night to pump, I always get 2 bloody oz which aren't enough for Nicole, I have started fenugreek and will se if that helps.
 
Hope you can keep your supply up hun. It must be difficult xx

Well sat here fighting back tears. So much for my hour to myself OH has decided his fucking call if duty clan match is more important. All i want is to sit in the bath and take my time rather than having a rushed shower. So pissed off its untrue!
 
Grrrrrrr KMB next time he goes to the loo take some scissors to that damn plug! Matt just wouldn't get an option but his balls very firmly live in my handbag!
I am actually going to have to go through the 0-3 stuff now he's uncurling thank god we have loads on dungarees as he is a twig

let me know how the pills go irma. how long are you pumping for? your supply does diminish on purely on pumping unless you get it to being just like a baby feeding which would drive you nuts
 
I cried and got my way lol. Only trouble is it happened a little.late as i usually would've taken her to bed after her last feed but OH did that feed and didn't know he should put her to sleep. Now shes wode awake so will have to wait for next feed.
 
i'm waiting on OH going back to work to get the routine properly under way
 
Its mainly so i can get some sleep lol but figured we may as well start from that lol.
 
We're in a routine but LO is almost 5 weeks now.

DD goes to bed at 7pm then I get DS up, feed him, bath and massage him then feed him again then he is generally really sound from 8.30 til 11ish then his restlessness starts. Tonight he os quite settles but I have insomnia and cant sleep anyway lol. Im at Mums so she'll probs let me nap while DD does tomorrow. No idea whats up with OH. He was horrible all morning but then helped me pack and gave me a kiss goodbye and said he loved me and has been texting general chit chat. hopefully a jight off and full.nights sleep will do him good and he'll realise what a dick hes being.

Bloody tired now hope I can fall asleep. DS shouldnt wake until at least 2 xx
 
oh JO Idk what is wrong, I have a great pump a hospital grade double pump, I pump every 2-3 hrs I even wake up two times at night one of those it is around 3am which ppl ssay it is important to pump between 1-4am to keep supply up, I pump for 15-17min, why oh wy to I only get two ounces???? I have to supplement with formula sometimes as she's still hungry :(
 
oh stardust I hope he realises all the hard work you do and stop acting the way he has being acting :hugs:
 
Irma even hospital grade prob won't get what a baby does when feeding have you been on the expressing section on here for ideas. I think wee man here prob gets at least 4oz per feed! it is of course less heavy than formula so can drink more
 
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