When did yall start sipping wine? 2nd tri?
I had a couple sips really early on at a work event. I wasn't ready to tell anyone. I sell wine so I'm around it constantly. Last week we had a big meeting and we tasted over 30 wines. We always spit so I wasn't worried and I only took one taste as opposed to a couple like I usually do. But at dinner I had literally a sip of white wine. I poured a glass so no one questioned why I wasn't drinking.
But yes, I'm ok with a small amount here and there starting in the second trimester. If you're at dinner and a friend has something that looks great, a sip won't hurt you at this stage.
Some people freak out about alcohol and won't touch it even if they think small amounts are ok. They are just too much of a worrier. I tend not to get all worked up about these things.