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I am really hoping to word this so as to not offend anyone.
Neither my husband or I have any particular religion we follow. I am not against religion or faith in any way, in fact as I've written on here before I wish I had faith. I've never said god doesn't exist or I don't believe or anything to the children purely because a) I cant be sure either way and b) we decided that we would let our children make their own choices when they were older in regards to religion.
Now my son is nine and considers himself Christian and would like to go to church and I am supportive of this. I believe he is old enough to make this choice himself and I try to be a good Mum and be supportive all of his choices (obviously as much as I can be). I of course would go with him as he is only nine but clearly with me not believing it makes it slightly more tricky.
So I thought a service on Christmas Eve would be a nice way to introduce him to the church and if he enjoys it I will take him as much as I can (probably once a week, perhaps a little less as it all depends on my husbands shifts as I have the other two children to consider).
Now the point of this thread is, I feel really awkward about it. I obviously want to take him to a church that has family friendly services so I thought I should ring up but how do I say hey I don't believe but my son does so can I bring him to a family friendly service? Obviously not as blunt lol. I have social anxiety so strangers and strange places (not that churches are strange just that I haven't been there before) are a big deal for me any way but I can count on two hands how many times I have been to church. How would you deal with it, just turn up or ring?
And those of you who go to church, are they family friendly? Will I be welcomed even though I don't have faith?
Neither my husband or I have any particular religion we follow. I am not against religion or faith in any way, in fact as I've written on here before I wish I had faith. I've never said god doesn't exist or I don't believe or anything to the children purely because a) I cant be sure either way and b) we decided that we would let our children make their own choices when they were older in regards to religion.
Now my son is nine and considers himself Christian and would like to go to church and I am supportive of this. I believe he is old enough to make this choice himself and I try to be a good Mum and be supportive all of his choices (obviously as much as I can be). I of course would go with him as he is only nine but clearly with me not believing it makes it slightly more tricky.
So I thought a service on Christmas Eve would be a nice way to introduce him to the church and if he enjoys it I will take him as much as I can (probably once a week, perhaps a little less as it all depends on my husbands shifts as I have the other two children to consider).
Now the point of this thread is, I feel really awkward about it. I obviously want to take him to a church that has family friendly services so I thought I should ring up but how do I say hey I don't believe but my son does so can I bring him to a family friendly service? Obviously not as blunt lol. I have social anxiety so strangers and strange places (not that churches are strange just that I haven't been there before) are a big deal for me any way but I can count on two hands how many times I have been to church. How would you deal with it, just turn up or ring?
And those of you who go to church, are they family friendly? Will I be welcomed even though I don't have faith?