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[skeet9924]

Oh I bet!! Oh and I barely see each other now because of his crazy work hours.. I feel like a single mom most of the time .. It was fluke I got preg with Carson cause I was only seeing oh once a week!

I'm so excited today!! On Sunday Carson started laughing now today at exactly 3 months old he rolled from front to back.. He cried after as he startled himself but I was soooo happy lol

 

[jmandrews]

Aw that is so exciting skeet! They grow so fast!

 

[rosabelle]

how exciting JM, hopefully it happens easy for you too.
We werent even trying, although i had forgotten to buy more of my pill so should have been a bit more careful! lol oh well its a blessing, instant family!

Skeet, i know how you feel.. i feel like i am doing this on my own at the moment.. and this pregnancy is horrible already so that doesnt help..
theres no way i am raising 3 kids 'on my own' so he better lift his act!
i mean he its not like he is out partying otr drinking, he is working but it gets to the point where u kinda need to draw the line, u know?
I would rather us sell the nice car and buy a cheaper house, just so he didnt have to work so much and could be with us..
sorry had a bad morning so needed a little vent.. lol

 

[Wilsey]

Not exactly the same situation but hubby has been doing renos and we're trapped in Will's bedroom while it's happening. So he works, then comes home and works on the house. Its for us, but I still miss the time and help.

 

[jmandrews]

I know how u ladies feel! My hubby is an actuary and he works hard. He has been studying and taking exams to earn his FSA since he graduated from college in 2009! He is the most driven and hard working person I know. It just get so difficult at times. I feel like I am a single parent. I know when he is finally done it will be so worth it. I feel so lucky to be at home with my sweet baby girl.

Wilsey that will look amazing when it's finished! Great job! Love it!

 

[Wilsey]

He's built it all himself! It's very impressive I'll have to post before and after pictures!

 

[rosabelle]

looks great wilsey!

its hard isnt it..
i guess i cant have everything.. him working these hours will allow me to be off work hopefully for a few years with 3 bubs but i do wish he could spend more time with them growing up..
my dad was the same when i was little and he now regrets not being around for those years

 

[Wilsey]

At least the good thing is THEY won't remember. So it'll be more that your husband might regret missing it but your kids won't remember him not being around as much. Well, until they're like 4. My earliest memory is 4 years old, wouldn't have a clue what happened before that

 

[jmandrews]

I agree. They will not remember. I have like two memories from 3 and most of my memories came when I was 4. Lol I guess it's hard to realize try won't remember when we will for them.

 

[josephine3]

Wilsey look at all that cupboard space! Wow im jealous lol. Is that lo's room?

My oh works almost every day and its hard, we try to have a nice relaxing family day together when he does get a day off.

 

[josephine3]

Also forgot to add exciting news about ntnp jm!
Oh is all read to ntnp again, but im not quite there so i am just tellling him when i think he needs to use a condom. Im not charting or anything tho, so its a lot of guesswork on my part.

Im still very scared of delivery again, and more so the after part where i kept passing out and could see bright white light and children dancing.. I think i lost a lot of blood and had a bad experience getting repaired too im scared to do it again i dont want to die during childbirth!

 

[Wilsey]

Wilsey look at all that cupboard space! Wow im jealous lol. Is that lo's room?

My oh works almost every day and its hard, we try to have a nice relaxing family day together when he does get a day off.

It's our living room. The bottom ones will have cupboard doors.the middle portion will have a mantle and eventually a gas fire (when we can afford it). We only have a linen cupboard for storage at the moment so need more storage!!

 

[rosabelle]

thats true, they wont remember but its more for his sake as well.. and when they are older.. i dont want him working like this for years and years..

Jo, i am dead scared of labour and birth again.. and, even after a 3B tear they have told me they will let me delive the twins naturally as long as the bottom one is in the right position! scares me a little!

 

[Wilsey]

I had a c-section last time (although got all the way to 10cm dilated and pushed for an hour before baby was distressed). Depending on the weight of the baby is whether I'll book in for a c-section or try for a natural birth.

I'm not worried for some reason...

 

[jmandrews]

Aw Jo I do not blame you for being fearful at all. I have strong faith that your second time around wont be as traumatic. We r just remind that life is so precious. Hope u can move on from your fear.

 

[jmandrews]

Anyone else having issues attaching photos or changing your avatar? I can't get mine to work. wanted to share some family photos we had done in May.

 

[josephine3]

They did say they would most likely offer me a section cos my tear was so bad last time but I really would prefer to have a natural birth if i can for the second too as the fear of the epidural puts me off a c-section. i hope that if the delivery is well managed (not like last time where no-one even saw me push her out) then it wont be as bad.

 

[armywife11]

Girls just remember no to Labors are the same. (If that helps)

I would love to try for a home birth the second time around but who knows. Maybe we will be near a birthing center by then. If things go how I think they might, we could be moving in the middle of my pregnancy again. Yay! lol

 

[jmandrews]

Yay got it to work! Here are a few pics from my family photos that were taken in May. Everlee is 10 months in these.

 

[rosabelle]

JM what gorgeous photos!! She is just adorable!!