Team Chilled Out is taking members - are you with us??

[kitty83]

Morning girlies! Sorry I haven't been on here much, have been busy/stressed with work and ttc has kinda taken a back seat (not by choice!!) - I think subconciously (sp?!) OH and I aren't that enthusiastic/optimistic about it as I'm still not having any periods so probably not ovulating and there seems to be little point in trying!!!

Appt with hospital tomorrow though - apparently OH's latest sperm analysis was really good so looks like me that needs treatment so they're going to start the ball rolling. Not sure what that will involve as I know I need to lose more weight before they give me the meds so presumably they'll do a scan of some kind to check tubes and then tell me to come back when I've lost the weight. Easier said than done!!!

 

[chella]

Hi everyone?

Hows everyone doin? Im still here trying and planning my next steps for next cycle


xxxx

 

[sambam]

Hey i think this is the group for me if i can join ?

I came off the pill on 4th april... and we started ttc straight away...
got AF on 5th May so due to test in a week !!...

I have never used an OPK... or charted my temps !...
I try not to symptom spot... but its really hard !! .. im just gonna like mad and when it happens .. it happens ! i believe it will happen when the time is right !

Baby Dust to u all

xxx

 

[glitterbug]

Well ladies I suppose I really ought to post here too!! After my mc at the end of April, I had absolutely no expectations this month at all!! I was so fed up yesterday I only took a test so I could have a drink to drown my sorrows and the flippin thing was only a !!!!

For those of you still trying in chilled out style, I didn't use an OPK once, I didn't chart or temp - so it can be done!! In fact, I was so chilled out this time, I didn't even realise I was in my 2ww properly until I was nearly in the 1ww!!!

Good luck all. I'm praying for a sticky this time but I will still pop in from time to time to see how you're all doing

 

[MissyMojo]

heya girls. cani come bk in here??

once i stop bleeding n get ok frm hos im gonna be ttc again chilled out stylee

 

[glitterbug]

heya girls. cani come bk in here??

once i stop bleeding n get ok frm hos im gonna be ttc again chilled out stylee

As if you even had to ask!!! Don't be daft!!I'm glad you feel up to trying again already. I felt exactly the same and was worried what people would think of me as I didn't really wait at all; just til the bleeding stopped. Hopefully you'll be lucky and get your cycle back to normal quickly so you can concentrate on getting a sticky

 

[chella]

Congratulations wohooooo so did u bd every other day or jus as it came , so pleased for u that does giv me hope when feelin all down thanku xxx

 

[glitterbug]

Congratulations wohooooo so did u bd every other day or jus as it came , so pleased for u that does giv me hope when feelin all down thanku xxx

Hi chella - well I didn't know whether I would OV or not, but to be honest I was worried i hadn't done enough!! We bd'd three days solid after the bleeding stopped, then I got ewcm for three days and OH conked out on me and I didn't get any duffing in at all!! Then we went back to it the couple of days after! I guess I must have OV'd somewhere in the middle of that time, or i caught it the day after!!

Don't lose hope at all! It does happen, happened to me twice now and I didn't do it every other day. I wanted to but OH wanted things to be natural not regimented.

Hope you get yours soon honey!!

 

[mjt11907]

hello ladies... so as i used to do all the opks and charts and temps ...i found that it just drives me nuts... so we stoped all that and just bded as we felt... i shortly after became pregnant... and shortly after the BFP... i miscarried... so now here i am back to ttc yet again!... and this time im not bothering with all that other stuff just gunna bd as much as we can... so if u dont mind id love to join u ladies...

 

[glitterbug]

hello ladies... so as i used to do all the opks and charts and temps ...i found that it just drives me nuts... so we stoped all that and just bded as we felt... i shortly after became pregnant... and shortly after the BFP... i miscarried... so now here i am back to ttc yet again!... and this time im not bothering with all that other stuff just gunna bd as much as we can... so if u dont mind id love to join u ladies...

Welcome babe. Sorry for your loss. The same happened to me last month but according to a few tests, I have caught again this month so it can happen pretty quickly!

Good luck. Sending you some sticky to get you started xxx

 

[MissyMojo]

heya ladies,

so im kinda bak to ttc chilled style, in the yup finally after 10 days bleeding has stopped and been gone for a few days last nite me n hubby DTD it was fantastic and amazing and much needed as we hadnt had any since 4/5th may!!!! with the exception of while he was away for the army for 4 months thats the longest ive gone, certainly the longest with him lying right there beside me.

soooooooo this cycle will probably be a wipeout so its jst gonna be a case of for sake lol


btw sorry if i went a bit too much on about the im just excited to be "doing it" again

 

[glitterbug]

heya ladies,

so im kinda bak to ttc chilled style, in the yup finally after 10 days bleeding has stopped and been gone for a few days last nite me n hubby DTD it was fantastic and amazing and much needed as we hadnt had any since 4/5th may!!!! with the exception of while he was away for the army for 4 months thats the longest ive gone, certainly the longest with him lying right there beside me.

soooooooo this cycle will probably be a wipeout so its jst gonna be a case of for sake lol


btw sorry if i went a bit too much on about the im just excited to be "doing it" again

Don't count on it being a wipe out babe. Look what happened to me straight after!!! Keep an eye on that ewcm and go for it!! Good luck babe. Got everything crossed for you xxxx

 

[loveBaby84]

Ok so wondering if maybe i can join you guys too My son is 12 months and we recently decided no more pill or condom what ever happens happens soooo.. heres to having fun practicing can i join you lovely ladies ?

 

[mjt11907]

yea ..well i had took a few opks... and two days they were both dark.. and the 3rd day they started getting lighters... so even tho no witch yet.. i think i may have ovulated... so me and oh have been bding as often as we can( i took the opks cuz i was feeling severly like crap and didnt no why and being everything has been messed up i wantred to no what was going on )..... i didnt wanna do it cuz then all it does is give u more dissapointment wen u test... and i wanna be chilled out about everything and let it all happen....

 

[MissyMojo]

heya girlies

how are we all doing?
me n oh have been having every day this week!! oh seems to go crackers over me atm he said just now "were making babies we need to have sex every day" lol!!!!

 

[Caroline]

I'll join you too.

Had mc April 10th, just finished first , but gona take things as they come. No charting, no temping, just plenty of .

No symptom spotting, and no testing until :af @ least a week late as cycles will no doubt be all over the place.

Realistically I know its gonna be a few months before my body settles down, so I know it maybe awhile b4 we get pg again.

 

[CJane]

I've just joined and this seems like the right thread for me. My and OH's planning has gone along the lines of "there's only 2 more condoms in the box, how about we don't buy any more and see what happens?"

(Okay, that's a lie, his planning went like that, mine was more of a "FINALLY!! Yippee... let's get going!")

So, here's to lots of no pressure fun for the next few months!! With lot of hoping. I'll let you girls know how it goes...

 

[MissyMojo]

welcome cjane

 

[TySonNMe]

I'm with you Caroline. No charting, no temping, just good old-fashioned you know what. I only want to test after I'm sure I missed AF, but being my first month off the pill and a prior history of loopy menstrual cycles, I'm sure it's going to take a while.

 

[MissyMojo]

heya ladies, how are we all doing??

any bfps yet???

i got yesterday but not out til shows, shes M.I.A post mmc