LexyAjMommy
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I know that I shouldn't be worrying about this already... but I am..and I know that the moment is going to come quicker than I want it too and I really just need insight....
I am 30 y.o and I have 2 little ones from a previous relationship. DD is going to be 9 and DS is going to be 7... I've been out of this game for a while but am excited about our little upcoming arrival! ( May, 2014 )
When I got pregnant with my DD, I was 21 years old and scared... I told my mother via email. Did not go very well!! She didn't talk to me until the day of my baby shower when I was 8 months pregnant. I know that telling her via email might not of been the BEST way to go but... I was scared and well.. young and naive.
2 years later when I got pregnant with DS, we invited Mom and her bf ( whom I adore ) over for Easter Dinner and we told her there... She got up and walked out... and.. left. Just.. left... she came around a couple months later....
I got divorced 5 1/2 years ago and me and my SO have been together 4 1/2 years ( baby is due on our 5 year anniversary )... My mother is not very fond of my SO and it's her fault because she stuck her nose in my business and she didn't like my response to it and she blames him for 'changing' me....
Well I am 4w4d preggers * based on LMP * and... I am scared to tell her. I can't believe I just typed that. That I, at 30, am scared.
She lives over an hour away, I only see her a couple times.. When I called her in early August to let her know we found a house and our offer was accepted- she said ' oh thats nice, i gotta go " and hung up in my face...
I don't know why she can't be happy for me. So I made a deal with my SO... If we get the mortgage, I'll call her that day and tell her... If we don't? I'm waiting until after our 10/17 appt to tell her...
Personally?
I'd love to get her vm and leave it on there... I really don't want the negativity... I am happy about having this baby... My SO and I both are! I don't really want her negativity at this time... I know I'll let it get to me...
Any ideas?
I am 30 y.o and I have 2 little ones from a previous relationship. DD is going to be 9 and DS is going to be 7... I've been out of this game for a while but am excited about our little upcoming arrival! ( May, 2014 )
When I got pregnant with my DD, I was 21 years old and scared... I told my mother via email. Did not go very well!! She didn't talk to me until the day of my baby shower when I was 8 months pregnant. I know that telling her via email might not of been the BEST way to go but... I was scared and well.. young and naive.
2 years later when I got pregnant with DS, we invited Mom and her bf ( whom I adore ) over for Easter Dinner and we told her there... She got up and walked out... and.. left. Just.. left... she came around a couple months later....
I got divorced 5 1/2 years ago and me and my SO have been together 4 1/2 years ( baby is due on our 5 year anniversary )... My mother is not very fond of my SO and it's her fault because she stuck her nose in my business and she didn't like my response to it and she blames him for 'changing' me....
Well I am 4w4d preggers * based on LMP * and... I am scared to tell her. I can't believe I just typed that. That I, at 30, am scared.
She lives over an hour away, I only see her a couple times.. When I called her in early August to let her know we found a house and our offer was accepted- she said ' oh thats nice, i gotta go " and hung up in my face...
I don't know why she can't be happy for me. So I made a deal with my SO... If we get the mortgage, I'll call her that day and tell her... If we don't? I'm waiting until after our 10/17 appt to tell her...
Personally?
I'd love to get her vm and leave it on there... I really don't want the negativity... I am happy about having this baby... My SO and I both are! I don't really want her negativity at this time... I know I'll let it get to me...
Any ideas?