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Mumtotwoboys
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Hi ladies, 
If possible can i join you all? I've been charting for a few months now, but realistically this is the first month where I could get a BFP as my DH only had a reversal in November. We don't know if things are back to normal with him yet, but we can hope!
I'm currently 8DPO and was expecting a dip to indicate implantation, instead i've had a huge rise.... is that good or bad?!
Good luck to everyone xx
If possible can i join you all? I've been charting for a few months now, but realistically this is the first month where I could get a BFP as my DH only had a reversal in November. We don't know if things are back to normal with him yet, but we can hope!
I'm currently 8DPO and was expecting a dip to indicate implantation, instead i've had a huge rise.... is that good or bad?!
Good luck to everyone xx
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Hi ladies,
If possible can i join you all? I've been charting for a few months now, but realistically this is the first month where I could get a BFP as my DH only had a reversal in November. We don't know if things are back to normal with him yet, but we can hope!
I'm currently 8DPO and was expecting a dip to indicate implantation, instead i've had a huge rise.... is that good or bad?!
Good luck to everyone xx
You do not need a dip to implant and same goes for just b/c you have a dip doesn't mean you implanted. I would just worry about them getting higher and staying up love! So yes a huge rise is awesome!! Everything XX for you!!
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Welcome Mumtotwoboys.........Prettysakura is right. I got a huge dip at 8dpo this month looked just like an ID and was not judging by todays temp of doom. Also implantation can happen most anytime in LP-esp. from 8-12dpo.
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Titi-Im so sorry
Mumtotwoboys-Welcome, Good luck this month! fingers crossed for you!
Thank you Kstancook. My NY resolution was Faith in God's timing-giving this whole TTC over to him wholeheartedly but it is so very hard after 13 cycles of BFNs. Any suggestions?
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Titi I hope your 
comes VERY soon!! 
comes VERY soon!! 
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Titi-Im so sorry
Mumtotwoboys-Welcome, Good luck this month! fingers crossed for you!
Thank you Kstancook. My NY resolution was Faith in God's timing-giving this whole TTC over to him wholeheartedly but it is so very hard after 13 cycles of BFNs. Any suggestions?
Im not really good at giving things to God. But Im working on it... As for now I just keep telling myself and praying that he will give me my BFP when I am suppose to have it. and each night I ask him for it. Good luck Titi, got to have faith that God has a plan for you. You may not know it or understand it but it will make sense one day.
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thanks for the replies... i guess i just need to see what happens instead of worrying about it. see what tomorrows temp. does!
titi sorry your temp has dropped, but as i'm a novice on this TTC all I can say with any conviction is it's not over until AF shows... fingers crossed for you x
titi sorry your temp has dropped, but as i'm a novice on this TTC all I can say with any conviction is it's not over until AF shows... fingers crossed for you x
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I"m so sorry titi!! 
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So sorry Titi!
It is always so gutting when
shows 
The stress of all this really takes its toll. I got so fed up at the beginning of this cycle that I thought "sod it" I am not taking any more supps, not stressing about every temp and just BDing when I want and it seems to be working! I take my temp and do the opks but don't worry about what they mean or symptoms or anything. Can't say if it gets me my bfp this cycle but at least I feel better about life than I have done since I started TTC!
It is always so gutting when
shows The stress of all this really takes its toll. I got so fed up at the beginning of this cycle that I thought "sod it" I am not taking any more supps, not stressing about every temp and just BDing when I want and it seems to be working! I take my temp and do the opks but don't worry about what they mean or symptoms or anything. Can't say if it gets me my bfp this cycle but at least I feel better about life than I have done since I started TTC!
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Thanks girls.
I feel a little better today. CD1 is just always so hard for me at this point. esp. when I thought I had an ID and used my softcups first time, etc.....so hopeful!
Really going to practice trusting God's plan-thanks for the advice Kstancook. It has worked in every single other area of my life so why not this one I am just holding on too hard.
2016-I think you are right. I almost didn't temp this morning but don't think I could bear to give that up......but definitely need to take a more relaxed approach and an "if it happens it happens" attitude rather than the "it needs to happen this cycle!!!!" frenzy I've been feeling......
love and dust to all
I feel a little better today. CD1 is just always so hard for me at this point. esp. when I thought I had an ID and used my softcups first time, etc.....so hopeful!
Really going to practice trusting God's plan-thanks for the advice Kstancook. It has worked in every single other area of my life so why not this one I am just holding on too hard.
2016-I think you are right. I almost didn't temp this morning but don't think I could bear to give that up......but definitely need to take a more relaxed approach and an "if it happens it happens" attitude rather than the "it needs to happen this cycle!!!!" frenzy I've been feeling......
love and dust to all
2016
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I couldn't bear to stop temping either...and I am still using opks. I just enter in my temp, cm and cp then try forget about it. No more staring at it for ages wondering what it all means like that is gonna change anything 
It's gonna get much more difficult for me to stay switched off in the 2ww.....
It's gonna get much more difficult for me to stay switched off in the 2ww.....
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2016-Ha ha you should have seen me analyzing my chart like a madwoman. I can't tell you how many charts I looked at yesterday trying to find pregnant ones that had a temp dip to coverline day AF was due!! I get crazy period denial.
We'll help each other get through 2ww! I have decided there is something I am meant to be doing before I get the BFP that I can't figure out because I am too obsessed with that-so going to spend this cycle finding out what it must be!!!
We'll help each other get through 2ww! I have decided there is something I am meant to be doing before I get the BFP that I can't figure out because I am too obsessed with that-so going to spend this cycle finding out what it must be!!!
