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The BFP Before The 'Would Of Been' Due Date Thread - Any Joiners?

We definitely don't take it personal when people come in and say they don't want to be there. I think the hard part about treatment while expecting is that you can't do the "comfort" things that make you more relaxed like nitrous or sedation. Good luck having the tooth out : /
 
We definitely don't take it personal when people come in and say they don't want to be there. I think the hard part about treatment while expecting is that you can't do the "comfort" things that make you more relaxed like nitrous or sedation. Good luck having the tooth out : /
I've never had that luxury anyways. Everyone else does, when I got my wisdom teeth pulled out, ( one, then 2 weeks later one, then a year later the other 2) I asked about nitrous or ANYTHING, all they gave me was a script for valium every visit, lol, cuz when I went in for my free consultation and xrays I was shaking violently and started crying :blush: the lady kept reminding me they weren't doing anything but x rays, lol, I knew that but that's how scared I get. Believe me I know it's over board! Bugs/spiders and dentists...and clowns, and I swear that's it.
 
You sound like me on an airplane AngelWings...I always get a prescription for Xanax...pop about 5 and then still freak out...all while my mother (we usually travel with my parents) is freaking out that I am taking so many Xanax (though it's very low dose)...lol...but I'm still proud that I can get on a plane...of course, while I'm at the airport I start leaving messages for everyone telling them that I love them!
 
Army happy belated heaven birthday to Joshua <3

Dentists don't bug me just the needles.

Airplanes don't usually either but when we were flying back home last time we hit a serious patch of turbulence and every time the plane would jolt an "oh god" would escape my lips an I was white knuckle gripping it to the seat. My son saw me do that an copied me lol he's 2.5 didn't help that Lexi was only a couple weeks old and I kept thinking of crashing and dying without getting to spend more time with her :dohh:
 
The only thing I don't like about flying is my ears popping.
I HATE that feeling. Weird what fear can do to someone huh?
 
Aww. I can imagine :) that's great he's doing so well!! Enjoy every minute!!
The weathers been gorgeous. My fiance and I have been having dinner on the deck every night. Wedding plans seem to be going smoothly. We argue over little details lol and spending but its fun. There's so many little details you don't think about and ugh, so much money being spent. Oh well. 5 and a half months left till it :) I'm so excited!

So much to buy isn't there!! My friend just spent 36,000 and my jaw just dropped.. :haha: I'm too much of a tight wad!
What are your wedding colours?
 
We do free nitrous in our office. My Dr always says its worth it to have a relaxed patient!! IV sedation is something we just started doing but I love that it has an amnesia type effect on people so you are relaxed and then don't remember anything!! Sedation with Valium or other oral drugs can be as good but it's hard to get the dosing to the perfect level sometimes!!

I can't really think of something that I really fear--several things I really don't like doing come to mind like PAPs--I wish I could get a Valium before those lol
 
I had to have IV sedation when I had my root canal several years ago. The shots to the gums never worked for me.

AFM-Baby has dropped! I have about 2 more inches of breathing room now when I sit down. Dr. thinks baby has flipped but wont know for sure until my ultrasound at 38 weeks!
 
Sorry I've been quiet. I've been in tremendous pain. My hypermobility has result in a rib being damaged badly so I can barely move or breathe or laugh without agony because of baby/uterus pushing on it. I'll probably have to be admitted into hospital for specialist care because all the pain relief which I can take and they are throwing at me won't touch it. Feeling glum about it all but have to keep reminding myself it's all for my rainbow <3
 
We do free nitrous in our office. My Dr always says its worth it to have a relaxed patient!! IV sedation is something we just started doing but I love that it has an amnesia type effect on people so you are relaxed and then don't remember anything!! Sedation with Valium or other oral drugs can be as good but it's hard to get the dosing to the perfect level sometimes!!

I can't really think of something that I really fear--several things I really don't like doing come to mind like PAPs--I wish I could get a Valium before those lol
I just can't get used to paps either. It's awkward to start with, and that swab always hurts! I'm 33, you'd think I'd be used to it, but nope!
The doctor always had to tell me to relax cuz I get scared and "clench up"
 
Sorry I've been quiet. I've been in tremendous pain. My hypermobility has result in a rib being damaged badly so I can barely move or breathe or laugh without agony because of baby/uterus pushing on it. I'll probably have to be admitted into hospital for specialist care because all the pain relief which I can take and they are throwing at me won't touch it. Feeling glum about it
all but have to keep reminding myself
it's all for my rainbow <3
Aww, sorry to hear that! :hugs:

My oldest would bruise me, but never managed to crack anything although I think he was trying!

Hope they find a way to make you comfortable.
 
Ok, maybe my hormones are making me crazy (well actually I know they are), but I'm not super experienced in early scan pics, but the more I look at mine from 7wk 5 days, the more I see 2 heads and also an extra arm to the side. Twins are so cute and all, but I am not prepared for that! I'm hoping this is just me being nuts.
I zoomed in on one, and adjusted contrast on another to see a little better. In the other pics it only looks like one. But I'm going to post these 2 and just tel me what you think.
 
Basically the + sign looks like one babies head, and the dot looks like the start of a different head to me, the black Pitts being eyes
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I'm not good with photos but it looks like just one to me angel so I don't think there's any need to panic :haha: x
 
Not long to go now girlin :hugs:

I don't mind paps not the greatest things in the world but they don't hurt me. When I had my HSG for the fertility clinic I nearly passed out it hurt so bad so the second time I had to have one done I was panicky, they gave me good pain meds but still I was freaked only to find out it didn't hurt at all since I'd had a baby in-between them and that made all the difference.
 
Ttc ism-
Ask your doctor about baby aspirin.

If your loss showed no chromosome issue, you may have thick blood or a type of clotting disorder. I've been reading up on this. If you google it there us a lot of interesting theories that seem to be working.

Turns out a LOT of women with unexplained miscarriages often have some type if thrombophilia disorder. It can cause the blood flow to the placenta to be restricted, denying the embryo or fetus of oxygen and nutrients. Taking one 81mg tablet of baby aspirin daily can help in a lot of situations.

Obviously don't just go by me, lol, I'm not a doctor, but look into it and ask your doctor. Everything I've read said that in the first 2 trimesters baby aspirin can't hurt, and they are starting to think it can help.

Just be SURE it's the baby dose.

I'm taking one a day now myself, and will be thru the first trimester, assuming I can make it.

Got my 2nd bloods back .

16 dpo 221
18 dpo 520

Doubling time is about 34 hours!
:happydance:

I've seen women with higher numbers, but I looked it up and I'm well within normal range.

Plus it's the doubling that really matters :)

2 1/2 weeks till scan - Fx that I get to see the heart beat! I'll be 7 1/2 weeks at that time. If all goes well, I think I'll finally relax.

i've been on baby aspirin for months...she just took me off of it after this last miscarriage. not sure why but she said it's ok for now. maybe so my blood is normal when they do all the testing.

that is good on your second bloods. Yeah, everyone's numbers are different so as long as yours are doubling, then you're fine. Mine were super high but that's because i was having twins. :-)

I pray you get to see that heartbeat too Angel! :-) :hugs:
Thank you.
Thursday morning I woke up to a little scare.
(TMI) I went to pee and there was a tiny bit of light brown. I know thus can be perfectly normal, but after MC's its scary.
It happened again the 2nd time I peed.

It did not happen the rest of the day. I called the doc and left a message. They called back and in I went for more bloods. Sucks cuz I won't get the results most likely till Monday, which is when I go for repeat bloods (assuming today's results were higher than last week)

No cramping though, so that's good.
If it comes back and gets heavier or is painful, I'll go to the ER where I can almost immediate results.

I think I have a UTI. I get one every time I'm pregnant. Never otherwise.

There's no pain, but when I pee I can"feel" it more, if that makes sense, and I've had a couple pains in my bladder. ( I know its my bladder cuz I do not have a left ovary or tube). Also, when I go it seems like it takes forever to come out.

I have heard this can cause spotting itself. Being so worried about the brownish cm, I forgot to mention it when I went in to pick up my paperwork for the blood draw :dohh:

I may hit the ER tomorrow evening for that , and mention the spotting just to get some blood results

I can't wait till Monday, its too stressful! To make matters worse, when I woke up, my breast tenderness greatly decreased. However I was so tired I fell asleep around 9, which I never do, and now its 4 30 am and I can't go back to sleep!
However, just a bit ago when I woke up, bb's were killer sore! Its so dumb what can make someone in early pregnancy happy! I know symptoms can come and go.

At least the brown cm has (hopefully) stopped.

I've been hungry too. I woke up starving and ate some oatmeal. Stomach is still rumbling.

Fx and :dust:

Hi Angel, i'm so so sorry i'm just now responding. I've been really MIA lately. just been busy and mainly just writing in my journal thread. Sorry about your earlier scares. I hate that early bleeding. It is so scary and just doesn't seem normal. I'll go back through here to see your latest updates and I hope everything is ok by now! Your ticker is still up as progressing so that's a great sign. I'm totally with you on the funny part of what makes us happy in early pregnancy. I was constantly beating up my boobs to make sure they still hurt. I loved it. I mean it sucked that they hurt so bad but i thought it was a great sign. They usually hurt around ovulation too and right after all the way to my bfp but this time around, they aren't at all so it's making me think I didn't ovulate. OH well, guess we'll see. I got positive OPK's and a temp rise but my temps are weird this cycle...anyway, thanks for the baby dust and I'm keeping you in my prayers girl! :hugs:
 
ttc nice to see you again, did you ever get any tests or results from the doc regarding your losses? I hope you get a bfp that stays nice and stuck this month.
 
I'm not good with photos but it looks like just one to me angel so I don't think there's any need to panic :haha: x

Ok, you're probably right. I apparently have an obsessive need to worry about something - anything!

Btw, cute avatar pic! :D
 

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